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A Superspreader Story: An Unexpected 10/7 Miracle?

Remember Covid? Anything before October 7, 2023 is a blur for us Jews. Even a global pandemic. The world was so different for us back then. Little did we all know…

Anyway, after a while the scientist community came up with some pretty compelling theories about how Covid spread so quickly despite most of the world being in lock down. One of the more interesting concepts I read about came from Malcolm Gladwell in his 2024 follow up to his first megahit, Revenge of the Tipping Point: Overstories, Superspreaders, and the Rise of Social Engineering. In it, he breaks down data and vast amounts of research to reach the conclusion that a very small number of infected people were able to transmit the virus to an exponentially larger number of people. He concludes that this is a great example of the “Law of the Few.”

Gladwell gives a number of other examples throughout his book, and terms these “few” as superspreaders. And the broader argument he makes is that relatively small numbers of people (or groups or institutions) can create conditions (deliberately or accidentally) that cause an idea, behavior or even a crisis (like Covid) to spread dramatically.

Immediately following the horrifying news emerging from Israel 3 years ago, as many of us mourned friends and family, searched frantically for loved ones and prayed for the return of those stolen from us, something sinister took root across the planet. And this mindboggling reality, the complete antithesis of what a sane and rational person would expect following one of the most gruesome, barbaric pogroms ever committed in the history of humanity…crimes, it is painful to remind you all, that were proudly recorded by the terrorists wearing Go-Pros and gloriously posted to socials, and that were joyfully boasted by the perpetrators to their friends and family in Gaza…reminded IDROS of Bizarro World, a dimension created by Superman’s creators, who could only dream of such a nightmarish reality if they were themselves Jewish.

By October 8, 2023, Jews lived in post 10/7 Bizarro World, a world where the victims of the largest mass killing of Jews since the Holocaust became the enemy of humanity, the perpetrators of evil and the genocidal maniacs that Hamas literally showed the world they were. And this nightmare grew worse every day as it spread throughout the Western World, through our own cities, neighborhoods, campuses, grade schools, local governments, workplaces, social circles, travel destinations, transportation hubs, entertainment, news outlets, coffee houses, dining establishments, sports teams and arenas, music venues, etc. Images of hostage posters being ripped down were pervasive. And social media became a cesspool beyond anything we could have feared in a dystopian novel. The vitriol spread like wildfire.

How did it spread so far and so fast? The long answer is that the foundation was fortified and funded over decades leading up to the attack. But the real horror of October 8 was perpetrated by superspreaders.

These took the form of celebrities, media personalities and outlets and of course influencers and large social media presences with massive followings. Dangerous “role models,” biased media and paid influencers shifted the ground we walked on to the Upside Down of Stranger Things literally overnight.

And it’s still happening, 3 years later.

We have all seen the ramifications. You can’t go to a concert or sporting event today without that moment of dread, fearing the band or audience or players or fans will do or say or wear something or fly a flag that might be triggering. You can’t watch an awards show or certain comedy specials without a sprinkling of antisemitic virtue signaling (or worse). Medical (and mental health) care has become a roulette wheel of uncertainty. Politicians seem to be competing at our expense and aligning with the worst scumbags on the planet to win over their party’s most coveted demographic, the vilest antisemites imaginable. Once respected news outlets and dependable sources of reporting have abandoned any semblance of journalistic integrity when it comes to coverage of Israel and anti-Jew racism. Social media companies, many owned or run by Jews, allow the most racist bile imaginable to proliferate on their platforms, selling out civility and humanity for extra clicks in a world mesmerized by and addicted to Jew-hate. And new faces and influencers have emerged, riding their unabashed and unbridled antizionism to superstardom, virtue signaling their way to millions of followers.

Celebrities and media professionals with a voice and a large following have a responsibility to their throngs and to society as a whole to not say, post or platform ideas that are dangerous, incite violence or prey on the marginalized and vulnerable among us. Or at least they should.

One of IDROS favorite media personalities is Dan Le Batard.

Here is an email IDROS wrote this morning to Dan, who built a media empire from the ground up and who has amassed an enormous following. In the past month, a few guests and show topics raised huge red flags for IDROS. My email, which was incredibly painful and difficult to write, and which grew longer and longer as IDROS debated and procrastinated sending it (because things actually got worse the longer IDROS waited as Dan never addressed or apologized for the initial interview, and then actually exacerbated my trauma with a subsequent podcast segment on a related topic).

Dear Dan,

I am still reeling. I feel hurt and betrayed in ways that are difficult for me to put into words.

This is a very difficult letter for me to write. I really hope you read this in entirety, one writer to another. It would mean a great deal to me and so many others. I have been sitting on this, adding to it weekly, debating internally whether to actually send it to you. But it is October 7, which is a good enough reason to nudge me into action. I apologize in advance for how long this email became, but it naturally evolved due to additional actions, inactions and complementary topics that unfolded since I began to write.

I cannot tell you what your show means to me. When I moved down to South Florida 17 years ago, I stumbled across your radio show almost by accident. From the very first listen I was hooked. Whatever you, Stu and Hoch were saying, to me, it was like hearing the song of the Sirens. Your brand of sports but not sports, shooting the shit with your co-hosts and a litany of guests, your silly games, Roy’s Top Tens, all the imaging and your serious commentary on race and current events and politics and social consciousness spoke to me in a way no other radio hosts ever did…including Howard Stern, who had been my gold standard at the time.

I had read your articles before. Back when newspapers were still a thing, my grandparents, who had a place in South FL since I was a young child, got the Herald, and I would stumble across your pieces every so often when I visited. You were a great writer, but not even close to how good you were behind the microphone. Listening to your show gave me a dopamine rush, and in those early days, I truly felt like I discovered you, and had you all to myself. I had moved away from the northeast, where sports radio was a whole other animal, and felt like I found new friends on the air to make my move and adjustment better…easier. And your brand of “sports radio” was so great I barely noticed you almost never discussed any of my favorite teams.

I went to some of your events…poker tournaments at Dania, watch parties. I wrote you emails, told you what I liked and didn’t…what I missed from previous years…when Hoch left and the big voice was replaced by your father, when you had a particularly strong show that resonated with me, or a run of great shows with a guest co-host. And you wrote me back. You, not some intern. I felt honored. I secretly wanted to quit my job and join you in studio doing whatever you would let me do to earn my keep. You and the crew got me through some terrible times, a light in my darkest hours. And you always made me laugh, often. You were a godsend. You became almost family.

Then you grew and became a podcast. My love and appreciation for your show got even stronger, if that is even possible, because I could listen to you whenever I could, never miss a show and get to know you and all your crazy shipping container personalities even better. I was in heaven. You were my favorite entertainers…I devoted more hours per week on you and your shenanigans than anything or anyone else (outside my family), including the NFL, my favorite sports teams, all other podcasts combined, my favorite TV shows, music, hobbies, etc.

I love everything you do and have reveled in your success and growth throughout the years. Your creation of your own media company was, in my opinion, a well-deserved culmination of everything I hoped and even knew you were destined to achieve, because I knew everything I felt about the quality of what you put out there was true and real, and I knew you were going to achieve great things as soon as I discovered you.

South Beach Sessions (SBS) hooked me instantly as well. The raw emotion, the honesty, the conversations, the depth, the curiosity, the give and take and the motley crew of guests were appealing as much as getting more insight into you, what makes you tick and watching you peel the onion of your own psyche and background and fears and insecurities and loves and dislikes. It gave me a front row seat to you (and your guests) as an insider, and I enjoyed the intimacy and seeing not so much a different side of you, but certainly a more serious and honest and reverent side of you that was held in check, dulled or even masked during your primary namesake show by the cast of characters, the topics of discussion that usually weren’t personal (even if you added your personal opinions about them and sometimes delved, much to Stu’s chagrin, into more serious and intimate territory) and a general vibe that was more conducive to jocular banter, comedic bits, looser structure and a desire to keep things moving (Greg Cote’s never-ending countdown of catch phrases notwithstanding).

And I grieved with you when your brother got sick and mourned with you upon his death. And you should know that.

Before I continue, I feel obliged to include the fact that both your flagship show and SBS can often platform your (and all of your minions’ and often even your guests’) political views, opinions and bloviations (all seem to share your views or are forbidden to comment if they don’t, other than the everyman Stugotz character who was too afraid of topics like race to really express a true opinion). Your liberal and progressive views on pretty much everything (particularly race) are well known, and in most cases mirror my own. For the most part, I find myself nodding along to most of your scathing critiques of this administration, the anti-Kaepernick crowd, chaos created by ICE, global warming and the undoing of protections vis a vis our natural resources, the widening wealth gap, sausage fingers tweetstorms, hypocrisy in diplomacy or lack thereof and general buffoonery and lack of empathy.

All of the above hopefully gives you or any other reader enough of a background to at least have an appreciation of my relationship with and feelings about your shows, as well as the fact that your politics were never really a secret to me (nor any of your listeners regular or casual), and that a) they never bothered me once in 17 years; and b) for the most part, we park our cars in the same garage (in the parlance of Jean Claude Van Dameshek) on pretty much all of your political, racial and social views.

And that is why it hurt so much when I perused my podcast queue for SBS in early September and saw that the next guest was Cenk Uygur. I took a deep breath, but I couldn’t bring myself to press play. I procrastinated…stewing in my feelings for several days. I listened to Stugotz’s new show out of spite a few times. I started an audiobook. I purposefully avoided all of your shows.

And then I summoned the courage. I guess I trusted you; after all, I felt a kinship with you that is hard to explain. And I knew I had to listen to it anyway, because either you would allay most of my fears by understanding who this guest was and what he represented from the jump…asking the tough questions, following those up with more, controlling the conversation and not allowing yourself to be influenced or coerced by his charms…or we would get here…my fears would be validated and a little more of my post-October 7 self would be defiled by people I care about in our world.

I hate-listened to every second of the interview…numb with visceral internal pain, nausea and a constant shaking of my head in disbelief that became more and more like a tic or onset Tourette’s. The tough questions never came. You gave the equivalent of a softball lob when, toward the final minutes of the episode, a mention of Hasan Piker was made, and upon Cenk’s deflection, clear adulation for his nephew and dismissal of Piker’s 2019 incendiary and viral quote about 9/11 being America’s fault and deserved (he laughed and said “Hass walked it back”), you seemed to accept this and move on.

Now, in fairness, I do not know what was left on the cutting room floor, nor if Cenk and his people had you agree to certain boundaries or topics before the interview, but the interview was a giant dereliction of duty by the interviewer and a massive slap in the face to every Zionist and American patriot…especially those whose family was affected by 9/11. And the timing of the interview/release, just before the 25th anniversary of that infamous day which his nephew has since famously defiled was obtuse and tone-deaf to say the least.

I understand that Cenk has some things in common with you, Dan.  I realize his digital media empire (which he created and built from the ground up, in Miami of all places, much like you did yours) has risen in the ranks much like Meadowlark, does incredible numbers and has outsized influence in the world of politics. In fact, his political stance against Donald Trump and the current administration clearly makes him an ally of yours on many political issues and causes. And so, for all these reasons I can appreciate why he might be a guest you would think about for SBS.

But I assume you vet your guests. I mean you did know Hasan Piker was his nephew, and I am not saying people should pay any price for being related to someone, but it should have at least raised a red flag or two? This hopefully would have led you and/or your booking team down a rabbit hole of evidence and reasons why: a) Cenk Uygur is an inflammatory racist, much like every bad thing you associate with Trump, except his racism is primarily directed at a group of people often overlooked or outright piled on by most people in progressive circles. He peddles in hate, makes outrageous claims and echoes conspiracy theories for clicks, and he constantly regurgitates serious libels about Israel and the Jewish people from every Islamist, Soviet, Chinese and Nazi hater around the world.

b) his digital media platform is named “The Young Turks.” Do you know what this references?  The Young Turks, much like the IRGC in what was Persia (now Iran) led a revolution at the tail end of the Ottoman Empire. After seizing power under a generally accepted rationale to overthrow the powers that be, upon victory the Young Turks consolidated power and perpetrated the Armenian Genocide as well as serious persecution of Christian Minorities. Moreover, as usual, Jews were targeted. In fact, there was a push by the Young Turks (they made orders to allies in the region) to deport Jews from Palestine a number of times during the first World War, but fortunately the British advance and seizing of Palestinian Territory (which was far larger than what makes up today’s Israel and Palestinian Territories) precluded mass deportations of Jews. I realize Cenk has denied his show name is in homage to that group, but, um, it would be like a group of modern Germans forming a media platform and show and naming it The Hitler Youth. Or if you had named your media company and/or show The 26th of July Movement.

C) Hasan Piker. He might be the most dangerous person in America today. To put it in a way that might resonate with people who get your show, if I were making a top-5 list of dangerous people in America today, Piker would DEFINITELY be on it. And he holds a lot of power in the coming elections…the mid-terms and eventually, our next president. Cenk Uygur is his uncle and fawned all over Piker in the latter parts of your interview. [I love Hass. He’s a great guy. He’s just misunderstood. He says a lot of questionable things, I don’t even agree with some of those things, but you can disagree with people and still love them. We all say stupid stuff, especially if you talk for a living.] He is racist. He relishes saying inflammatory things targeting quite a number of minorities and social castes and even dabbles in misogyny. But worst of all, he is anti-America and spits venom and vitriol every day about our country. He very recently said (purposefully pretty close to the 25th anniversary of 9-11 no less) “America is worse than al-Qaeda.” And Piker’s anti-Jewish rhetoric is so awful that even antisemitic political candidates have had to distance themselves from Hass, because his brand of Jew Hate isn’t cloaked and is less palatable to sane and rational voters. He emphatically said it doesn’t matter that Jewish women were raped on 10/7 (sit with that a moment as the Cornell 7 case unfolds in Ithaca). And he is deeply embedded in the progressive left, emerging as one of the more influential players in their ranks. He has radicalized countless millions on social media with lies, hatred, racist tropes and conspiracy theories. And he should terrify you too.

I am not sure what I hoped you would have asked Cenk. But I can’t imagine you would have even invited any other guest on your show who trafficked in constant and relentless racism regarding any other minority in the entire world. And if you did, I am quite certain you would not have lobbed a softball fifty minutes into the interview and shrugged off the answer, which basically embraced and showed love for a hateful and repugnant person. And I know, he and his brethren will fight you to the death on what is and isn’t antisemitism…because liberal people have no issue with people outside of any minority telling any other minority what constitutes and doesn’t constitute racism, right? White people should always tell black people whether something is racist to blacks, right? Or straight people should dictate what is and isn’t anti-LGBTQ hate, right? And men should get to say what is and isn’t misogynism, right? I am not sure why the progressive world has no issue with the fact that for some reason, Jews are the exception that proves the rule…on all fronts. We have been abandoned by our allies, by the progressive groups and circles and causes WE FOUNDED. And liberal and progressive circles not only look the other way, but they openly join in and kick us and spit on us and pour salt in our wounds. And you propping up someone like Cenk, and peripherally, his disgusting and vile nephew by association on your show, to your millions of listeners, is the latest example.

As bad as it was for me seeing that name in the SBS queue, it has only gotten worse since. I was hoping you would say something in one of your subsequent shows, or perhaps you would write something owning the fact that you could have done better, or even that you recognize many might have been put off or felt offended by a previous guest, and by you by extension for platforming such a divisive figure. But crickets…nothing except the occasional link and promo of the episode on your socials.

And then on September 17, the other shoe dropped (a cliché you have likely looked into on the show – or should). You mentioned the Macklemore/Ed Sheeran fiasco, and I braced myself, fear welling up inside that my world was about to be shattered yet again. And my nightmare came true, and it was much worse than I feared. Because as awful as your Cenk interview was on SBS, it still stood alone and could be written off as a one-time mistake, or perhaps an oversight, lapse in judgement or general naiveté. You joke constantly on your show that “THIS IS NOT AN ECHO CHAMBER!” But it is. Your show and its various hosts are so left you make Steve Carlton and Phil Mickelson seem almost righties by comparison. And as I previously mentioned, for the most part that hasn’t bothered me, and often parallels my own sensibilities. But the progressive left, for all of its virtuous altruism, has a glaring blind spot, which has been magnified since October 7, 2023.

I am not sure how people like you…progressives who are so brave and outspoken on racial topics, who regularly wade into difficult but necessary conversations and ask tough questions of guests, cohosts (again, much to Stugotz’s chagrin) and your audience on a regular basis on various racial, gender, class and political issues and topics…can be so blind when it comes to one specific, historically marginalized and oppressed minority group. This is not an accusation directed solely at you, but rather the entire progressive left…

Jews have been an integral part of the progressive movement in the Western world…particularly in America. We have been marginalized, demonized, othered, bullied, forced to convert, massacred and forced to flee over and over again throughout history. And we are always blamed for whatever ills plague a society, without fail. Jews are and always have been the world’s champion scapegoat (the worst GOAT to be). And upon finding freedom in this land, we struggled to find the freedom this great nation boasted about and promised. We were shut out of most professions. So, we created our own firms in banking and law and medicine where we didn’t have to worry about not being hired due to our last names and/or appearance. We even forged new industries, like Hollywood and serial comics, where we could literally create worlds to escape the reality we faced, free from hatred and antisemitism. And we helped build and shape a nation that was eager to reform and repent for a past that was not fully a shining example of the values our forefathers proudly etched into the documents that would provide the foundation for our young national experiment that strove to be better and different from the colonial powers from whom we fought for liberation.

Jews wouldn’t dare treat any marginalized group the way we have historically been treated. And we wouldn’t let others abuse them either. Jews championed civil rights, women’s rights and LGBTQ rights. Jews created and were instrumental in building institutions that aimed to protect marginalized groups from inequality and prejudice, and legacies of those efforts remain today. Jews walked shoulder to shoulder with Dr. King in Selma, investigated (and were murdered for it) racial crimes in Mississippi, helped create the ACLU and NAACP, led the Leadership Conference on Civil and Human Rights and were instrumental in raising and providing funding for HBCUs and providing faculty support at those institutions. And we have voted Democrat in sweeping majorities.

And with that history, it is an even greater stab in the back that Jews have been abandoned by the majority of the progressive left, and worse still, have been betrayed and ostracized at the behest and bidding of nefarious groups that represent some of the most oppressive, racist, misogynist anti-LGBTQ, anti-West, anti-Democracy, anti-America regimes on the planet (Russia, China, Islamist groups led by Iran, Qatar and the Muslim Brotherhood).

And why? Because of Zionism. Because of Israel. Or so they claim. It should be said that a vast majority, likely upwards of 90% of Jews worldwide, are Zionists. Zionism is not the evil supremacist political desire to cleanse the middle east of Palestinians it has been painted to be by so many (foremost, the Soviets, who used the exact same language and propaganda in the 30s, 40s, 50s and 60s for various antisemitic and Anti-western reasons). Zionism is simply a belief that the Jews have a right to self-determination and nationhood in their ancestral homeland of Israel. PERIOD. And it happened, so Zionism is now irrelevant. Israel exists as the homeland and nation of the Jewish people. Antizionism is now a hate movement hell bent on murdering and/or cleansing Israel of all of its Jews. And has become the de rigueur, modern and safe way for antisemites to degrade, other, bully, intimidate, assault and scapegoat Jews for whatever ails their society or to assuage their own guilt and shame for being a descendant of people who did whatever it is for which they blame Zionists and Israel. And they always claim antizionism is not antisemitism.

But I digress. The conversation on your show on September 17 was enlightening in the worst way possible. Not only is it clear that you and your cohosts share the blind spot that today’s progressive left has for Jews, but it demonstrated the platforming of Cenk and the tacit acceptance of Hasan Piker despite his egregious anti-American and antisemitic rhetoric was no oversight. Amin, who has slipped and revealed his anti-Israel based antisemitism a few times previously (but who, as the only Muslim on your show’s roster, is evidently unimpeachable for that sin) was emphatic in his repeated genocide libels, echoing Macklemore, and belittling the insidious agenda and racism the opener’s hijacking of Sheeran’s tour has been since revealed to be (A full Israel-bashing music festival fully planned at major world capital venues magically materialized just days following his and numerous other acts’ exit from Sheeran’s tour – so clearly that was in the works prior to the platformed hatred). He questioned the conflation of anti-Israel sentiments (antizionism) and antisemitism. And then invoked the age old anti-Jewish trope by saying the “powers that be” decided to silence people…to quash this but somehow looked past Kanye. He then went on to insinuate that the Billionaire owners apparently believe “one kind of [stutter stutter “content”] is acceptable?” He almost showed his hand by saying one kind of antisemitism…but remembered the antizionist talking points and quickly covered with “type of content.” Trust me when I say that Kanye’s brand of antisemitism and Hitler-worship is not embraced by any Jew or Jewish team owner. But economics and the bottom line tend to matter to business people, and so Kanye, who was the headliner and a huge draw, was, after a public apology and other repercussions, allowed to perform in some locations…especially a municipally owned location like Raymond James Stadium, while an irrelevant opening act with a similarly checkered history with antisemitism will not garner the same consideration. Ticket buyers paid to see Ed Sheeran, not Macklemore and his political theatrics. (This is no different than a stud all-pro wide receiver being allowed to play following some antisemitic behavior…they make other people lots of money, so “the powers that be” generally look the other way or are more lenient toward their transgressions).

You then mentioned that you were saddened that we have come to place in our society, with all our divisions, where Macklemore is somehow controversial when he says, “let’s not kill children.” That was NOT what he said (or did) and I will revisit this.

But the jaw-dropping moments came moments later, after Kanye had been brought up, and Amin joyfully added that Kanye’s behavior qualified as “actual antisemitism” as Jeremy, a Jew, couldn’t wait to agree with a “yup!” Zaz (who is Jewish) seemed to actually push back here when he provided context that Macklemore had a major antisemitic moment in the past (in which he dressed in “Jew face” replete with caricature hook nose and proceeded to give a full-on NAZI salute to throngs of cheering audience members), but no worries…he apologized and all is forgiven. Zaz’s context was important to the discussion, but that seemed to be the extent of his push back and even if he disagreed with Macklemore or the bent of the on-air discussion, you wouldn’t know it by his reaction or lack of more serious pushback.

And then Jeremy went on a rambling rant to I guess add more emphasis to his agreement that Kanye was the actual antisemite. During these musings, Jeremy said plainly, on the air, that what was happening in Gaza was a genocide. (He is Jewish and not only thinks that but believes that opinion is important to include in a recorded podcast, on the record, for eternity). And then Jeremy went further to drive home his point stating that Jews are very divided on their views on the Palestinian conflict and Israel in general (we are not…there are a small but unfortunately loud minority of progressive, liberal antizionist Jews who comprise about 10, maybe 15 percent of the Jewish population – this has been confirmed by poll after poll. This minority would be considered “Uncle Toms” in the black community, and part of the Patriarchy among feminists. Much to our chagrin there are a number of celebrities who fall in this category – primarily because they are cowards and would rather succumb to the mob than risk fan adulation, likes and status by actually identifying with the people and nation who currently it is fashionable to publicly bash). Jeremy then uttered one of the all-time anti-Jewish tropes (as Amin had done previously…but again…Jeremy is Jewish) as he expressed his own view that a rich and powerful Jew has so much control and wields it to silence critics…he and Amin also both inferred that Kraft strong-armed other arena and stadium owners to blackball Macklemore. This is traditionally when hosts on your show would use the term “allegedly.” Alas…nobody did at any time…for the duration of the mindboggling segment.

To bring it home, Amin and Jeremy weighed in on the fact that Jews, Israelis and the Israeli government (democratically elected by the Israeli people) are all separate and represent separate demographics and then tried to explain that people try to conflate them to both drive antisemitism and also to quell antisemitism and that it was mostly people on the right who tried to stoke the flames of antisemitism by conflating them all because they have so much political and economic capital invested in Israel or some nonsense like that. Listening back, the only thing that is clear is that neither of them should be discussing this subject matter. It was incredibly offensive, dripped with antisemitic barbs and tropes and was 100% based on the opinion of 2 men who were out of their depth.

And then you yourself posited a closing argument for the segment (basically repeating your earlier comment that you were saddened…) in which you opined “It is not hate speech to say we need to stop killing children.” Of course it isn’t! And that is not why most Jews and many other allies are upset with Macklemore. If he got on stage and simply said what you said – “we should stop killing children” NOBODY would have any issue with that sentiment…even with an antisemite as the messenger. But that is not all he says and does on his soapbox of hate. Just curious, have you ever asked one of the millions of Zionist Jews (most of us) why we are so offended by Macklemore? Do you or any of the progressive left social justice warriors out there even care? Because I can assure you if any other minority, race or marginalized group said something was racist or offensive, you would listen. You wouldn’t even have to ask them why it was offensive…it’s not up to you to judge or debate. But for us Jews, we are told every day that we have thin skin…we love playing the victim…we think everything is antisemitism…and mostly, “antizionism isn’t antisemitism.”

Your final thought on the subject was that you couldn’t believe “Macklemore wore a costume” and what an idiot he was for doing so. It was unclear if you were being serious or facetious given everything you had just said yourself, and what your cohosts had said that you enthusiastically endorsed. I will give you undue credit and believe you were serious, though and ask another question…if an artist had dressed in blackface ten years ago, and made mocking jokes or gestures akin to lynching or the KKK, later apologized, but then was refused to perform at a black-owned venue, and that black owner maybe even spoke to some other black owners who similarly refused said performer at their venues…would you have any problem at all with that choice by the venue owner(s)? Would you ‘whatabout’ him, and say blacks are trying to quash free speech? What if a conservative radio, tv or podcast host took issue with those actions and questioned them and gruffed on air about it…what would you think of them? Sounds like a reason to have Jamelle Hill and her friendly neighborhood race lady imaging on your show asap, no?

In a recent show you berated Craig Carton (and rightly so) for saying things cavalierly that he had no basis in saying, that he has no real knowledge of, and that were dangerous allegations to boot (they could endanger Pablo Torre, his reputation and could put your media company in a tough legal spot. Carton has a history that calls into question his integrity in general (as does Macklemore, especially when speaking about anything even remotely related to Jews). The things Macklemore says and does at his concerts is dangerous to Jews because it incites and gives permission to antisemites to engage in abusive and violent behavior. His rhetoric is nothing but inflammatory lies. He repeats libels about Jews (genocide, apartheid and colonizer) that are nothing but white guilt for crimes committed against Jews and other minorities around the globe, bottled up by both Nazi and Soviet propogandists and adopted today by Islamist regimes like Iran and Qatar. Macklemore also shows video footage of the war in which IDF soldiers are portrayed as literal Nazis. He does not in any way say, “can’t we stop killing children.”  And if you, like Carton, would simply do your former job of journalism, and actually speak to and listen to Jewish people who value and have a connection to Israel (again, 90% of Jews worldwide), you would know that none of us have any issue with people saying children should not be killed in a war (and definitely not in a barbaric attack on a music festival and on neighboring communities, raped, burned alive, tortured and in some cases taken hostage). And you would learn why Robert Kraft and so many of us do have a problem with Macklemore, before you repeat his slanderous language to your millions of listeners.

And so, I am left to wonder. Wonder what your true feelings are about Jews and Israel. Wonder if you have been conditioned in your progressive circles, like so many, to care about race and minorities and social justice for every marginalized group except the Jews. You talk about race often on your shows. You are one of the few media personalities who isn’t afraid to wade into racial issues, and you do it often. But you almost never talk about antisemitism despite it being the world’s oldest, and per capita, most prevalent form of racism. There are not only Jews within the shipping container, but many within the sporting world as well. Sure, the most prominent among these are in ownership and management and representation, but Robert Kraft is extremely active in the fight against antisemitism and even had a Super Bowl commercial this past year and yet was basically relegated to the “billionaire class” and “the powers that be” in your most recent discussion. Kyrie Irving doesn’t deserve to be talked about, but there are things to say, nonetheless. The 50th anniversary of the Munich terrorist murders at the 1972 Olympics came and went a few years back. No mention on your show nor was there any real proper commemoration or moment of silence at the games themselves. Not a word of the three years of campus protests that engulfed college campuses all over the US, and saw Jews targeted, assaulted, barred from classes. The games went on. Lucy visited campuses every week but never reported on the real rabid fervor that took over many quads. And never a word in any of your Soccer discussions, especially about the World Cup, about why Israel is forced to compete with all the European nations (the most competitive group in the world) despite being geographically located in ASIA, while the rest of the middle eastern nations compete against the Asian nations. And no mention of the recent soccer match featuring Ireland and Israel, and the ridiculous and disrespectful treatment of the Israeli team and the Irish star who refused to play (reactions that have plagued many sporting events and matches featuring Israel over the years).

I wonder whether you have any earthly idea how offensive it is to Jews (and likely some Zionist allies) that you platformed that man (Cenk) who spends any and every spare minute of his life telling lies and libeling Israel and the Jewish people on Piers Morgan’s show as well as his own. Amazingly he only mentioned Israel’s made up “genocide” twice during your interview, though we didn’t get all the footage that didn’t make it to air.

And speaking of that libel, I wonder if you or any of your listeners (other than Jews) know how offensive it is to hear people use the term genocide when discussing the war in Gaza or Israel in general. Imagine the worst thing ever that happened to any minority or people in the world, and then having that inverted and used as an accusation against its victims. Imagine, the term, which was coined to specifically describe the low point in human existence, which was the industrialized murder of a people…all of them, rounded up from around the world and brought like cattle in actual cattle cars to be slaughtered…and for the simple reason that they were Jewish. And then watching in horror as others use that same term, after changing its definition, to accuse the only country in the world – a tiny country the size of New Jersey – which is majority Jewish, of something equivalent in a scenario that couldn’t be more different and false in any possible interpretation of the word. For one, Israel was invaded in what was the most barbaric act of war against Jews since the genocide of the Holocaust. Second, many around the world, including people like Cenk and Hass, were accusing Israel of genocide on October 8, before the bodies were identified, before families began to mourn and certainly weeks before Israel began any form of armed response. Third, Hamas held hostages. So, war had been horrifically declared, and the aggressor held hostages. Zero in common with the Holocaust. Any nation would have responded, and responded violently, and would be well within their rights to do so. And any nation would continue to do so until the last hostage was returned or recovered (which took 2 years), and the threat at their doorstep was eliminated (still not there). Calling Israel’s actions in Gaza anything close to genocide is an insult to insults. It is like calling a black person with a cleaning lady (who is paid) a slave driver, or a rape victim who refuses to have sex after a date a rapist.

I wonder if you know that the accusation libels hurled at Israel and Jews (genocide, apartheid, colonizers, baby killers etc.) are all antizionist language invented by the Soviets over a century ago, before there was a Jewish nation, and that it is used today by Islamists to delegitimize Israel. As I already mentioned, antisemites (rebranded as antizionists) today cast such awful accusations at Israel and the Jews that support Israel that it gives people around the world PERMISSION to hate, assault and murder Jews – because anyone guilty of such crimes, especially genocide, DESERVES to die.

I wonder if you know that the Arab leader of pre-Israel Palestine (in the 1930s), the Grand Mufti of Palestine Haj Amin al-Husseini, was a close confidant and huge supporter of Adolf Hitler and the Nazi effort, met with Hitler multiple times, learned propaganda techniques from Goebbels (the Nazis provided Husseini and the Arabs with the machinery, money, expertise and broadcasting infrastructure to be the Nazi propaganda wing during WWII) and provided military intelligence to the Nazis against Britain and also tried to undermine efforts to create a Jewish state. Hitler promised Husseini that once German forces reached the Arab world, the Nazis would help the Arabs rid the region of the Jews.

I wonder if you know that Hamas’s founding charter clearly states that Hamas is against Jews as a people, not solely against Israel or Zionism, and that Hamas will find the Jews and kill them – language that invoked the genocide of the Jews. Hamas is a terrorist organization and declared war on Israel on October 7 in the most barbaric and heinous way possible. The world then quoted death tolls and many other lies every day told by this same terrorist organization and also forced Israel to negotiate with said terrorists to get their kidnapped babies, mothers and holocaust survivor hostages (as well as Americans and citizens from many other countries). When media outlets quote the number of children Israel allegedly “murdered” (no one killed by Israel was murdered by the way, tragic as their deaths may have been), they are getting their data from Hamas. Hamas fighters include children aged 13-18 who are drafted into the military. These Hamas “child soldiers” comprise a large percentage of the “children” Hamas reports as killed by Israel.

I wonder if you know why the term “Free Palestine” is so offensive to most Jews. The words seem innocuous, but they are disingenuous, are cloaked hate language, a literal dog whistle for inciting violence against Jews. Those words have been shouted at Jews in almost every assault, mass murder and riot around the world since October 7 (Bondi Beach, Boulder Colorado, Washington DC, Manchester, all the campus encampments and riots, as hostage posters were being ripped down, etc.) And what exactly does that mean? Free Palestine from whom, or what? There is no answer to that question (if somebody dares to answer it at all) that does not threaten Jews, replace Israel with another Muslim country in the Middle East, or even imply genocide against the Jews who live in the only Jewish majority nation on the planet.

I wonder what the Jewish members of the shipping container think about any of this. I wonder if David, Zaz, Dave or Jeremy know or care about the things Cenk and Hass say on the regular, and the millions upon millions they are radicalizing to hate the one majority Jewish nation in the entire world as well as every Jew on the planet, including the minority of Jews who are unfortunately antizionist.

I wonder what Stugotz thinks about it (if he even knows you spoke with Cenk). Or what he would think about it if he found out, and whether he would care. And whether similar sentiments have anything to do with your separation?

And I wonder if you realize that platforming Cenk and then reinforcing those sentiments with your Macklemore segment gives approval to your millions of listeners to tap into their rhetoric. It very well might introduce listeners and fans of yours who otherwise may never have heard of Cenk to seek him out, watch some of his clips on socials or even subscribe to his platform and may just radicalize them over time. And it certainly will give a certain group of listeners who already embrace and follow Hasan Piker a tacit endorsement, a wink wink not unlike Trump has done with dubious personalities and groups (like the Proud Boys, for example).

Finally, I wonder if you know that 4,000 Cubans fought with the Islamic forces against Israel during the Yom Kippur War in 1973. I know how much you love Castro’s government, so I hope you realize who he threw his hat in with, and which side of history he was on. Israel has been in an existential fight for its own survival since before it even declared independence, and it is also fighting for Western civilization, against regimes who vow “down with America” and “down with the West”…and those regimes include Castro’s Cuba. Thinking Jews are colonizers in the one nation on earth to which they are indigenous is a joke funnier than Cote’s top 50 (I mean 60, or 70, or 75) catchphrases. And thinking Jews are white is as racist as racism gets.

Please put in the work you demand of so many in our racist world. You are not alone having the blind spot you have…especially in liberal and progressive circles. And most especially in celebrity circles. But please do better. Jeremy is flat out wrong in his assertion (opinion) that Jews are sharply divided in their views on Israel. We aren’t. We may disagree with Israel’s government, policies or combat strategy (none of which we can or should control given Israel is a Democracy and has its own political, economic and security needs to address that we cannot possibly understand), but 90% of us believe Israel plays an important role in being Jewish – spiritually, culturally and historically. This vast majority identifies as Zionist. We believe the Jewish people have a right to self-determination and sovereignty in our ancestral homeland.

Those who do not share this view have likely been radicalized by the progressive groups and liberal colleges we have always been a part of, which have unfortunately been heavily funded and influenced by Islamic (and Russian/Chinese) regimes who hope to undermine Western civilization. Israel and Jerusalem are integral parts of Jewish history, life, tradition and culture, and are worth protecting and defending from radical and nefarious ideologies that aim to poison the West and destroy Israel. Those are facts and antizionists trying to rewrite history to paint a different picture is racist.

Thank you for reading. I still listen to your show even though you hurt me and am still waiting for some sort of apology or acknowledgement that you might have been wrong and that you will do better. I am willing to forgive. I do hope you will platform an opposing view, but it would mean the world to me if you and the shipping container watched the 47 minutes of footage from October 7, 2023 (actual footage, mostly taken from Hamas Go-Pros as they shot their depraved atrocities live and proudly as they committed the most barbaric, deranged crimes against humanity imaginable).

Best regards,

Todd

Incredibly, just before I was ready to post this saga, I received a response from Dan. Not from Dan’s handlers or publicist, but from Dan himself. He received my email this morning, read it in entirety and wrote me a heartfelt response. He was gracious, appreciative of my criticisms, owned mistakes he made and saw and heard me. He said he and his crew have discussed both shows I mentioned at length in private, and many of my concerns were similarly brought up by undisclosed members of his show. He owned that he has failed to bring any of this up publicly, at least up until today. He did not answer many of my questions but invited me to potentially meet up with him in person and discuss some of my broader points face to face. This was weighing on me of late. He was a hero of mine, someone who helped me escape the day to day for a half an hour of laughter and comradery here or there, and who, with many of his co-hosts and guests, was able to really talk about a wide range of topics in a way that really connected with me. To fear he was co-opted by the dark side, that I might not really be able to listen to him anymore because of what I felt was a savage betrayal was very painful. But his well thought out and prompt response, his clear acknowledgement of my pain and my vulnerability and my truth above all was incredibly welcome and, frankly, a little unexpected. Not that I didn’t trust him and believe in my gut, which always told me Dan was genuine and one of the good ones, but putting yourself out there in this post 10-7 world is not easy and often feels like you’re peeing directly into the wind.

Unfortunately, despite this positive outcome, we all know the story. The damage was done. A lie can travel halfway around the world while the truth is still putting on its shoes. Cenk, his praise for Hasan Piker, the repeated blood libels and the ridiculous Macklemore discussion was spread like Covid to millions of listeners and are still available to download. But there is hope that Dan heard me and will do something in the coming days to make up for these missteps. And even if he doesn’t, I truly believe he read my email, understood my message and will do better. He promised he would and thanked me for calling him out on his failures.

For three years, we Jews have all been Sisyphus, the mountain taller than Everest and covered in ice. But this is evidence that our fight is worth fighting. That small victories are possible. And that there is good in our world. Even our heroes are human, but some of them are redeemable.

Am Yisrael Chai!

Thank you for reading.

IDROS

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Madness

Ahhh, March! As the winter freeze begins to thaw and the promise of warmth and new growth becomes reality, millions of people worldwide scramble to fill their brackets to commemorate the greatest three-weekend sports gambling enterprise ever. That annual cratering of office productivity means that March Madness is here! Unfortunately, 59 people will not be participating this year (and couldn’t last year either). And so, in their honor, and in memoriam of all the other victims of October 7 and its aftermath, IDROS presents a unique take on Bracketology: the first ever “Pure MadnessTM” bracket, featuring global stalwarts in the field of antisemitism and rabid Jew-hatred.

Please note that this was no easy undertaking. The regions and seeds were painstakingly scrutinized. Many worthy contenders were left out, relegated to the Jew-hate equivalent of the NIT. Many Middle Eastern terrorists and tyrants (the Ayatollah included) were intentionally omitted because adding them would make this a field of hundreds of thousands (if not millions), and also because IDROS is trying to avoid having a fatwah issued against him. Others, such as the entire Ivy League Administration offices, the cities of Oakland, California and Dearborn, Michigan, many of Piers Morgan’s guests (and Piers himself), many in the former administration, the founders of BLM, the University and Higher Education System of California, the BBC, the IOC, Putin, etc., were our version of the last four out…these obvious choices were in many cases too nebulous, and in one case, superfluous.  

IDROS encourages you all to add suggestions, omissions, seeding improvements and general comments and gripes to the committee.

In surveying the field, there are some tantalizing matchups in every round. A potential battle of juggernauts in the Exodus Regional Finals conjures up comparisons to Duke Kentucky in 1992. And who knows, a play-in team from the Inquisition Region could be the first such team to make the Final Four…or even win it all (given the polarized world we live in, both play-in representatives will likely be chosen to advance deep into the tournament by millions of participants).

So choose wisely, buckle up and grab some popcorn. If you, like IDROS, fear for the safety of your children, at least try to have a little fun if possible. And let me know who you have winning it all. No matter who it is, we all lose!

As always, thanks for reading,

IDROS

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Reflections on A Godawful 9 Months – The Nuts and Bolts of Our Collective Grief and Frustration

Pistachios. The green delicious nut that offers health benefits such as lower blood pressure and cholesterol, better gut health and improved eyesight. Moreover, the work involved in extracting the morsels from their protective shell is somehow calming. But for the past nine months, no amount of pistachio consumption could cure what ails me – my blood pressure has risen, my gut is twisted in knots and it has been extremely difficult to relax. And I am not alone.  

October 7th 2023 shattered whatever false sense of security many Jews in both Israel and the diaspora have felt for decades. And with each passing day since that horror show, our collective angst and dread has only grown stronger.

So what on god’s green earth do those yummy treats have to do with Israel, Palestine or October 7?

Stick around. IDROS will get to that shortly. But before we crack open that mystery…

To begin, IDROS is reminded of the scene in Pulp Fiction in the basement of Maynard’s pawn shop. IDROS has dissected this seminal scene before, but now we can view it from another perspective. Butch had all but escaped after dispatching the Gimp. He was home free, but his conscience weighed on him…no matter what he thought of Marcellus ‘that’s your pride talkin’ Wallace, what Zed and Maynard were doing was so heinous and unforgivable that he grabbed the samurai sword, and headed back down to rapeville, to the bowels of hell. He risked everything for a man he loathed so much he had just hit him with his car…because the others were terrorists…worse than terrorists. Butch sliced and diced Maynard, and as he went for Zed to finish the job, we hear the shotgun cock and Marcellus bellow, ‘step aside, Butch!’ Then Marcellus told Butch he could go and proceeded to ‘go medieval’ on Zed and Maynard and their families.

On October 8, America should have been Butch. But it shouldn’t have taken a crisis of conscience…Israel was a close friend and essential ally for not only America, but the entire Western world. And Israel had just been invaded and violated as horrifically as Marcellus had been. And some of the hostages taken were American citizens for crying out loud. America should have stormed down those cellar stairs, guns blazing. Sure, Israel could have nudged its buddy and said, step aside partner, we got this.

The past nine months would have gone down much differently, for Israel, Jews and the entire world if America, who has entered many conflicts for much less of a reason, jumped in on day one and made it crystal clear that Hamas would pay a heavy price if every hostage was not returned alive immediately. Noone brazenly takes American citizens hostage, nor citizens of any American allies, and gets away with it.

Ah…what could have been.

Almost two months ago, we experienced a very uncomfortable Yom HaShoah. Sacred day, almost exactly 7 months after the worst violation of Never Again imaginable. And here we were, Jews the world over embroiled in mental and physical trauma, banging our collective heads against the Wailing Wall, asking unimaginable questions to ourselves, our families, our friends, our god…again. And the world, once again, had not come to our rescue. In fact, much of the world seemed to openly mock us, spit in our faces, or torture us with ambivalence.

And now, as I try to celebrate my birthday with family, I am left to think about those who are held in dark tunnels like Maynard’s basement, experiencing god knows what…just like that 12 year old girl in Paris. I think about their families. And all the families who have endured similar trauma throughout the ages, because of a dark and sinister and preposterous hatred that has bubbled in the recesses of humanity for thousands of years.

Here are some of the maddening topics that have ruined my birthday, and prevented so many others from experiencing their next celebration, many…far too many…for good.

  • Please Stand Up – Why is nobody with any power in the entire Western World standing up for us Jews, demanding accountability and consequences, and doing more than meekly delivering  hollow and worthless soundbites like ‘I condemn hatred in all its forms?’ These same people who scream from the rooftops when the pro-gun set offers ‘thoughts and prayers’ following every horrific school shooting somehow believe their qualified condemnations and platitudes will extinguish an exponential rise of the world’s oldest and most prolific form of hatred and vitriol and allay the fears of Jews who have literally been fearing for their lives since October 7. We are grateful for politicians like Stefanik, Hawley, Fetterman and Torres, who have been vocal and champions for our plight from day 1, but let’s be honest…nobody knew any of these representatives on October 6, and none of them are in a position to truly help turn the tide.  
  • The Miseducation of Our Best and Brightest – Stealing part of this bullet title from a noted celebrity antisemite because we need to upend the indoctrination of our children by nefarious actors in the dark recesses of radical Islamic interests. Led by Qatar, Iran and Saudi Arabia, billions have flowed to the most hallowed halls of academia throughout the western world since the rise of the Ayatollah, creating Middle Eastern studies departments rife with anti-Israel and antisemitic agendas, birthing and bolstering student and faculty led campus groups like SJP who use grass roots techniques to prey on and radicalize progressive students, and aligning with key progressive causes, groups and allies that once not only embraced Jews, but in many cases were created or largely influenced by Jews. By using a model of oppressor vs. oppressed, colonizers vs colonized and white vs. non-white, defining Jews and Israel as white colonizer oppressors – despite the fact that none of these definitions are remotely true, and Palestinians as non-white oppressed and colonized, slowly turned their progressive, liberal constituents against anything remotely supportive of Israel, Zionism and Jewish causes. If I weren’t so terrified for my family, friends and future generations of Jewish life, I would marvel at the intricate genius of the long con that has been perpetrated. But for now, I grapple with the serious questions surrounding how we can possibly undo the decades of radicalization of our most brilliant, supposedly educated students and recent graduates, the desecration of our universities and institutions of higher learning, and the rot that has infiltrated our educators, faculty and administrations, which has permeated not just higher education, but secondary and even primary educational levels in some ‘progressive’ communities.   
  • Refugees – there are two distinct phenomena that fall under this heading…both are tragic and both carry double standards. First, how are generations of Palestinians awarded refugee status perpetuating and exacerbating what is a devastating situation beyond the scope of any other people in the world? Somehow, this population has its own UN Relief organization dedicated to assist Palestinian ‘refugees,’ and despite this – and more on UNRWA later – their plight has worsened and their population has multiplied exponentially. And second, why are the people displaced in every other country involved in a war allowed to move out of harm’s way and migrate away from conflict to more peaceful countries in the world…but not the Palestinians? More than 6.5 Ukrainian refugees have fled war torn Ukraine in the past couple years, and almost 6 million more fled Syria during the recent Civil War there. But for Palestinians, they must remain in Gaza, an area not even 25 miles long and six miles wide, to be used to further alienate and burden Israel for the future, so despite there being 50-plus Muslim majority countries in the world, not one will open their borders to the Palestinians. Culpability for this phenomenon lies with many parties – the majority with the Arab League, who created the conflict by attacking en masse following Israel’s declaration of independence in 1948, their refusal to take in refugees since, attacking again in 1967 and 1973 and generally exacerbating tensions in the region ever since. Iran and Qatar’s role, which has jumped to the top of the list since 1979, will be explained in greater detail below. The UN and their evil stepchild UNRWA shoulder an enormous amount of the blame as well, allowing itself to be co-opted for nefarious plotting and undermining by terrorist groups and human rights offenders throughout the world. UNRWA was created to assist the Palestinians and allow them to shed their refugee status, but the group has been hijacked by terrorists and uses its entire massive budget for evil, teaching Palestinian children to hate Israel and the Jews from infancy in their ‘schools’ where they hide weapons stockpiles and terrorists. Finally, among those to blame for the crisis and conflict, we cannot forget the western democracies, led by the USA and the UK, who fund the UN, UNRWA and the terrorist groups who ‘govern’ the Palestinian citizens directly. Furthermore, it was the west, led by the UK, who spearheaded the partition plan in 1947 that led directly to this conflict, and who washed their hands of the situation after refusing to help the Jews, who found themselves mired in a regional war for their own survival against pretty much every surrounding nation as well as the Arabs who now call themselves Palestinians. Sure, Israel has some culpability in the current conflict and with the fact that there were some refugees stemming from the 1947 partition and ensuing war, but Israel DID NOT have anything to do with the UN’s partition plan map nor did Israel START the war in 1948, and Israel DID absorb hundreds of thousands of Arab Muslims and non-Jewish refugees in 1948, all of whom have been and remain full citizens of Israel today.
  • Inversion Psychology – Words matter! And weaving the playbook of anti-Zionist jargon including genocide, apartheid, ethnic cleansing and colonialism into any and every soundbite is not only infuriating manipulation of the facts, but also are all explicitly triggering to Israelis and diaspora Jews because of our lived experiences. Every one of these words describes not Israel, but the Palestinians and their terrorist governments as well as most of the Arab League and Iran.
  • Occupation – As with most facts, the truth that Israel hasn’t occupied Gaza since 2006 doesn’t seem to matter when arguing or debating with the pro-terror set. Worse, there have really been two Palestines since then, and that fact is used against Israel across every possible nuance of the conflict…Palestine and the people of both territories are united when convenient, and two separate entities under very different leadership when convenient. Also, every loser of a major war in our world, pretty much since the dawn of time, has been ‘occupied’ by the victor, and has had borders redrawn, territories annexed/lost, and created great migrations of refugees…occupations of the losing side are especially common when said loser started the war. The US and allies still occupy Germany, Japan and Korea, decades after those wars ended and will continue their military presence there for decades to come.
  • Data Manipulation and Media Bias – nearly every major media company as well as the throngs on social media all parrot misinformation repeatedly, even long after it has been proved untrue. The George Costanza theory that ‘it’s not a lie if you believe it’ seems to have made serious inroads among antisemites and antidentites of the world. Even months after the Gazan Ministry of Health finally copped to inflating the numbers of the dead in Palestine, nearly every media outlet still quotes the inflated numbers. Worse still, trusted outlets like Wikipedia are littered with lies, omissions and manipulations of facts. And the gestapo that runs such outlets are precluding respected agencies like the ADL from helping to correct the widening morass of misinformation.
  • It can’t get worse than what happened 10/7, right? The depressing and sometimes unbearable fact that things have gotten worse each day since October 7 weighs heavily on all of us.
  • Silence is Deafening – the silence of our ‘friends’ and ‘allies’ has been a rude awakening, and continues to boggle our collective minds. With the surge of antisemitism on college campuses all around the country and world, the silence becomes magnified. We know it is risky for many of you to visibly and vocally support us Jews, and especially Israel for fear of loss of business and general safety…trust us…we are experiencing it daily. But we represent a mere rounding error in the global population, and not much more here in America, so without non-Jewish support, we are doomed. We are beyond grateful for those of you who have had our backs, but we need more support.
  • Double Standards / Consequences- this may seem like the title of a suite or a Double Shot Tuesday entry by a 70s band like Foreigner or The Guess Who…if only. We could do a hypothetical for every detail of the Israeli/Palestinian conflict, dating from before the Mandate through now, and Israelis and Jews get treated differently than any other country and people would in every situation…always. The most glaring is that Jews in the diaspora are immediately and negatively associated with and pay a heavy price for Israel’s actions – which, by the way, are always REactions. Name another ethnicity or religious group that is treated similarly. If any other country in the entire world was attacked even half as savagely and barbarically as Israel was on October 7, I guarantee there would be far more devastation and a much more violent response with far more casualties. Ukraine was attacked by Russia, and more than 2 years later and far more casualties later, they are still fighting back. Israel is not allowed to win a war, and that is why for almost 80 years, after winning 3 wars it didn’t start, going for a 4th, surviving two intifadas and countless terrorist attacks including at the 1972 Olympics, we still have the situation we do, and it has gotten worse and worse to boot. There are consequences for waging war against a sovereign nation, especially when you lose…for all instigators except the Palestinians. Similarly, there are consequences for all people who commit hate crimes against a minority or protected class…unless, apparently, it is a crime against Jews…even in 2024.
  • The Legion of H, and their puppetmaster I with the funding of Q – I and Q are the masterminds behind not only the chaos in the Middle East, but also everything happening across the globe in city streets and on college/university campuses. The trio of H – Hamas, Hezbollah and the Houthis continue to wreak havoc and do the bidding of their masters, and the rest of the globe has pretty much accepted this status quo leaving Israel to fight a war on seven fronts – Gaza, the West Bank, Lebanon, Syria, Yemen, Iran and the media/global public opinion.
  • DON’T – This policy by the Biden/Harris administration is a JOKE! Hezbollah has not stopped raining missiles on Israel since October 7…clearly undeterred by this misguided farce of a warning. Nearly 100,000 Israelis have been forced to evacuate their homes for nearly a year now, with no timeline or encouraging sign that they will be able to return any time soon. The Houthis similarly have continued to inflict damage on the world stage, and have caused shockwaves in the global trade economy by forcing cargo ships to reroute due to their threats and attacks. DON’T eerily reminds IDROS of Neville Chamberlain’s appeasement policy toward Hitler and the Nazis…not sure that one worked out so well.
  • The Squad and the ‘Jewish’ Dissent – while this may sound like a dystopian Noah Baumbach film, this one stars elected members of the US Government who ooze antisemitic actions and tropes on the regular…and their token ‘Jewish’ counterparts that include our nation’s 2nd Gentleman, Bernie, Oscar winner Jonathan Glazer, Chuckie Schumer, and the worst offender, Jonny Stuart Leibowitz. These people, with large audiences and positions of power and gravitas, further alienate and marginalize, exacerbate the hateful rhetoric and lies, and, in the cases of the Jewish haters, are used as tokens to legitimize the antisemitism. We do get to hang a small win here with the recent defeat of Squad member terrorist-first-class Bowman being recently unseated, but these awful people who have attained positions of power and have millions of followers of their hateful bile continue to pull at the fabric of human decency, and make any peaceful resolution even more unattainable.
  • Never Negotiate with Terrorists – what happened to rule number one in the counter-terrorist playbook? More hypocrisy when it pertains to Israel and the Jews…do as we say, not as we do. And of course, let the financiers of terror and Jew-hatred around the world serve as the moderators and facilitators of any negotiations. How is this Israel’s only hope of a resolution? How do Israel’s chief allies, who have their own citizens in captivity, allow this as an acceptable reality?
  • The Innocence Project – Either Hamas was democratically elected – and because more than 70 percent of Palestinians support Hamas and the October 7 massacre still today, this is the likely scenario – in which case, the Palestinian citizens, tragic as it is, must face the consequences much like the German citizens under the Nazis and the Japanese citizens under Hirohito, and countless other ‘’innocent’ civilians have throughout history when their governments instigated/started a war. Or, Hamas ruthlessly came to power by force and the Palestinian citizens wanted no part of them – very unlikely – but even if this is the truth, then Israel has a duty to free the Palestinians from the terrorist group that holds them captive, and the Palestinians should support this. They don’t, nor does much of the world…because the majority of Palestinians aren’t so innocent…and because Jews don’t count. 
  • Masks – the fact that the terrorists themselves, and all in the world who have supported and continue to support them around the world, on campuses and city streets, in front of synagogues and on capitol hill, cover their faces with masks and keffiyehs, speaks volumes. Good guys and gals don’t wear masks, nor do they need to.

And last, but certainly not least,

  • Hostages – Never forget them. Any realistic protests must begin with the return of those held, and raped and tortured against their will. Bring them home NOW!

So back to pistachios. Remember back in the 70s and early 80s when pistachios were red? That dye would get all over your fingers and around your mouth. Frank Dreben, played by Leslie Neilson, in the Naked Gun was a big fan. The majority of our pistachios at the time were imported from…IRAN. And in order to hide the imperfections on the shells, which became more pronounced as a result of prolonged timeframes from harvest to point of sale due to lengthy shipping routes and port inspections, Iranians would dye the shells red. It was all a lie. The nuts aren’t really red, nor are they really nuts. Pistachios are seeds that actually grow inside a fruit. And of course the red dye is cancer-causing as most red dyes are – not that this was an issue in the 70s, when smoking on airplanes was still a thing, and farmers bathed our produce in pesticides – so the Iranians were [inadvertently] poisoning us too while deceiving consumers by covering the ugly markings on the older seed shells. Furthermore and with a bit of irony, the dye made the nuts non-kosher. But in a strange turn of events, when the Iranians took American hostages in 1979, the US embargoed all Iranian goods, and thus began the American pistachio industry in California. The red dyed nuts were swapped out for pure, natural cream-colored shells, and now most, if not all pistachios consumed in America are domestic.

These delicious delicacies well represent the Jewish people. They have been lied about, misrepresented, and the truth about them was hidden from the general public by middle easterners protecting their own self-interest. There is record of pistachios dating back thousands of years. They are referred to as ‘choice fruits,’ or botnim in the Torah. Their benefits to humanity, especially health benefits, are vast and multifaceted. But most importantly, despite political strife and a hostage situation forcing them to relocate, PISTACHIOS ARE INDIGENOUS TO THE MIDDLE EAST!

Wishing you all a happy Fourth of July. And while you are reveling in your own freedom this holiday represents, IDROS urges you to pray for the freedom of the 120 remaining hostages, several of which are fellow Americans. #BringThemHome

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Look At Me, I Am Old But I’m Happy…

Reflections on Five-Oh!

IDROS has woken up in the morning 18,263 and a half times so far (an accomplishment in and of itself many of those mornings). And yes, it has certainly been better than the alternative.

If this were an anniversary it would be “Golden.” As a birth milestone, however, the shine is dulled. It’s a number better used for speed limits, interstates, prolific NBA individual scoring nights, Grant’s currency, Curtis Jackson, shades of grey and ways to leave your lover.

IDROS has now lived a year for every state in our union (though the past three have felt more like Alaska, Texas and California). But I digress.

To mark this auspicious achievement, IDROS put together a random list of top (and sometimes bottom) fours…his own Mount Rushmores (Mounts Rushmore?) of memories, truths and arcana. Follow along if you choose. Please know IDROS will not divulge the impetus or theme for any of these un-presidential stone carvings. Debate them if you must but allow this newly anointed AARP member the dignity of his own rankings. Some come from days of yore, so clearly there could be some haze, cobwebs and senility contributing to rankings and omissions you may feel are objectionable. Don’t fret. Even the original Mount Rushmore has its misgivings and predated some deserving replacements.

Before we begin, IDROS would be remiss in failing to honor and acknowledge family, friends, classmates, influences and meaningful connections he lost during his climb to the fiftieth floor. No human can make this journey alone, and IDROS feels blessed to have been part of their lives.

These will be listed in no particular order, and from left to right, meaning honorable mention on the left, then third, second and winner, winner chicken dinner moving to the right.

Here’s to 50 more:

  1. Japan; Costa Rica; Italy; Israel
  2. 1981 NFC Championship Game; 1987 Stanley Cup Finals Game 6; 2008 World Series Game 6; Super Bowl LII
  3. Snickers; Kit Kat; Reese’s PB Cup; Reese’s Take 5
  4. Franklin Field; Aiden Lair Park; Mundauk Common; Robbins Park
  5. Tipitina’s; Roseland; Tower; Beacon
  6. Birthday with friends at a Chateau in Cognac, France; Limo from LaGuardia with Captain Kirk; Kayaking in Glacier Bay; Skydiving in Switzerland
  7. Shark; Alligator; Live Scallop; Blow Fish
  8. Herbie Hancock; Dr. John; Donald Fagan; Page McConnell
  9. Dalessandros; Pat’s; Dino’s; John’s
  10. The Wire; Succession; The Sopranos; Lost
  11. The City: Literature and Culture; 12th Grade Calculus; International Relations; 8th Grade English
  12. Blueberries; Pears; Raspberries; White Peaches
  13. Maui; Santorini; Ambergris Caye; Ko Samui
  14. West Side Story; Phantom; A Chorus Line; Les Miz
  15. Drakkar Noir; Eternity; Gendarme; Cool Water
  16. 1991 NCAA Championship UNLV; Every Carolina Game in Cameron; 2001 Final 4 vs. MD; 1992 ERF vs. UK
  17. Miss McCracken; Mr. Reif; Mr. Frankenberger; Mrs. Lane
  18. Waffle House; Wild Bulls; Steak & Egg; The Biscuit King
  19. Goodfellas; Original Star Wars Trilogy: Pulp Fiction; The Big Lebowski
  20. All NY and NJ Pro Teams; Atlanta Braves; UNC; Dallas Cowboys
  21. Gilhooley’s; Omar’s; Red’s; Maloney’s
  22. Photographer’s Assistant; Valet Parking Attendant; Bartender; Camp Counselor
  23. Aliens; Terminator 2; Godfather II; The Empire Strikes Back
  24. Wine Corks; Die Cast Model Cars; Ticket Stubs; Baseball Cards
  25. Bonnaroo; Lollapalooza; Jazz Fest; The Clifford Ball
  26. Will Ferrell; Chris Farley; Eddie Murphy; Phil Hartman
  27. Brunello di Montalcino; California Zinfandel; Barbaresco; Nobile di Montepulciano
  28. Mount Pilatus; Mount Marcy; Masada; Mount Fuji
  29. Conan; Carson; Letterman; Larry Sanders
  30. Gardens; Forest; Chapel; Ellington
  31. Knitting Factory; Irving Plaza; Wetlands; Tramps
  32. Donna; Whitney; Ella: Barbra
  33. The Glenn; Northern Lights; The Church; The Humbies
  34. The Dead Sea; Lake Geneva; Grotta Azzurra; Adriatic Sea
  35. Cod (at Nobu); St. Peter’s; Halibut; Dover Sole
  36. Phish (all 4); Shatner; Gervais; Steely Dan (both)
  37. Satisfactions; TJ Hoops; The Green Room; The Hideaway
  38. Broken Collarbone; Impacted Wisdom Teeth Extraction; Plantar Fasciitis; Kidney Stones
  39. Diff’rent Strokes; Cheers; Greatest American Hero; It’s Garry Shandling’s Show
  40. Cherry Coke; Ginger Ale; Dr. Brown’s Cream; Classic Coke
  41. 10th Grade Geometry Class; A Recent Presidency; Covid; 9/11 (note: there have been a few deaths in the family including dogs – these all win, but can’t pick favorites)
  42. Chez Es Saada; Madame X; Niagara; Belmont Lounge
  43. The Flintstones; Looney Toons; Superfriends; Scooby Doo
  44. Ohtani; Brady; Jordan; Gretzky
  45. Wall to Wall Sound & Video Willow Grove; Napster; Columbia House; 94 WYSP Labor Day 500 Countdown Contest
  46. The Simpsons; Arrested Development; Curb Your Enthusiasm; Seinfeld
  47. David Gilmore; Neil Young; Trey Anastasio; Jerry Garcia
  48. Tokyo; Venice; Tel Aviv; Paris
  49. Erin Grey; Tiffani Amber Thiessen; Natalie Portman; Michelle Pfeiffer
  50. Any Day at Camp or College; My Wedding Day; Birth of D; Birth of Z

As always, thanks for reading.

Happy 4th!

IDROS

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KKKan-Ye

What a week! Being Jewish has never been easy. And I am in no way comparing the public fall from “grace” of a loose cannon, unstable genius who has always found it necessary to publicly embarrass himself (and others – see George W. Bush, Taylor Swift etc.) to the countless atrocities inflicted upon the Jews since the dawn of Judaism.

But this particular circus is scary…the acts themselves, many of the comments on social media and elsewhere, the tacit nods of appreciation, the silence (in pockets), the delayed response by Nazi-founded affiliate Adidas, the emboldened hate groups, and the greater macro-dynamics and undertones. So scary, in fact, that IDROS has been compelled to weigh in on this seismic event and subsequent fallout instigated by a racist, narcissistic buffoon who has regularly spewed more bullshit than high season in Pamplona.

He has always told us who he is. Pink’s prescient but easy 2009 Twitter post following Ye’s selfish, rude and misguided grandstanding at the MTV VMAs has never seemed more relevant. But he has consistently told us that he is not only an ass, but a racist, immature little man-child who believes the world revolves around him and all others should kiss the sacred ground he walks upon. When someone tells us repeatedly who he or she is…it is incumbent upon us to BELIEVE him/her. But in our culture, the good ole dollar means more than anything. We see it again and again. If someone can produce movies, or run a hedge fund, or throw/run with a football, or hit a baseball, or host a TV show, or tell jokes or govern a Southern state, or run an oil company, or own a professional sports team, or run a large real estate company, or own a media company, etc. very, very well (and others profit from these talents)…well then letting a racist/misogynistic/homophobic comment or tweet slide is par for the course. Those who prove they can make other people money are pretty much untouchable…even for nefarious and illegal actions, let alone their hallowed and protected right to speak (or type) freely.

And damn him, but Yeezus could make money. Pretty much everything he touched turned to gold. So his inner circle and various media outlets have turned a blind eye or ignored him at every turn, scoffing…”oh Kanye…he so crazy” or “he’s off his meds, don’t mind him” or “don’t be so thin skinned…it’s only words” or “Kanye being Kanye…don’t mind him” along the way. Worse, some protected him to the point that they buried some extremely dangerous quotes and off-the-record comments (like his adulation for Hitler, which was nearly the title of his eponymous album we know as Ye).

Let me be clear: Ye and his enablers are dangerous! And they kept a lot of the most serious and disturbing rhetoric out of the public eye for years. Why…because he was their golden goose (or because they feared being sued for libel/slander). And I have issue with that last part (and the first part, of course) because shouldn’t media members be encouraged to blow a whistle on thoughts, comments and ideas that could present a danger to others? Isn’t it similar to a doctor or lawyer breaking patient/client confidentiality to prevent a crime? He did make a very antisemitic public comment in 2013, discussing Obama, but it wasn’t followed by a shitstorm of follow up Jew hatred, double downs and refusals to apologize that accompanied his latest episode, and so it was promptly swept under the rug and dismissed as “Kanye being Kanye.”

The PoS Ye has 30 million social media followers. THIRTY F-ING MILLION! That is twice the Jewish population of the entire world. There are levels of wrong, just as there are levels of responsibility. His misguided hate speech (which likely could have been nipped somewhat in the bud, or at least mitigated had one of his enablers or media protectors acted sooner (like in 2018 when he professed his love and adulation for the Fuhrer)). Clearly this latest outburst was inciteful. White supremacists proudly hung antisemitic banners over a freeway in the second most populous city in our country and gave the Nazi salute while the hatred swayed in the wind below them. Too many comments on every mainstream social media outlet praised the rapper, echoed his sentiments and said he was “right.”

That is why Elon Musk welcoming him with open arms to his soon-to-be owned bird-brained social media company was so scary to me…and should be to the rest of you. That is also why the self-proclaimed genius’ deal to buy Parler is terrifying. (And don’t get me started on the likes of Tucker Carlson).

I am all for free speech. People confuse financial consequences and social ostracization with legal ramifications (read: there are none in a country with protected free speech) all the time. They whine every time “cancel culture” rears its head; they talk about the good old days, when comedy was free to be comedy (read: people had free reign to attack every marginalized group out there for laughs, no matter at whose expense those laughs came. About the great free wheeling days of Mad Men, when boys could be boys and make sexual innuendos and bang every co-ed in the office, no matter the power dynamic (and back then, the power dynamic always tilted Y Chromosome). The problem is not “cancel culture.” The problem is the unchecked criminal behavior: the hate crimes and incitement of violence. As for the “cancel culture” response, it can be overdone and wielded more heavy-handed than it should be in some cases…like everything else in America, we can’t do anything in moderation. We don’t understand the concept.

But in this case, the Heartless rapper deserves everything that has come thus far, and so much more.

Bottom line, words have consequences. You are seeing that in real time.

Social Media wasn’t a thing when our Bill of Rights was written, and many of its nuances could not be anticipated.

There is a reason members of the KKK wore (and continue to wear) hoods. They didn’t (don’t) want their doctors, lawyers, neighbors, children’s teachers, etc. to know they were in the Klan.

I do not believe speech should be protected if the speech is made anonymously. After all, what then are we protecting? And whom? Put your name on it. Say it without a pillowcase covering your hateful face.

This becomes even more germane (again, not Jackson) in the modern world, where people toss salvos and vitriol from the comfort of their basements (or more likely, their mother’s), using fake profiles, stolen pictures and no repercussions. And those are the actual human trolls. What of the tech-generated, algorithm-based bots? And these will get more and more dangerous with the development of better AI, and more time to learn about humanity and what makes us tick. And believe me…they are learning at exponential speeds.

What goes on in the shadows is and has always been terrifying. Zed’s basement in Pulp Fiction exists, on some level, all over the world. Add to that the element of tech-driven, undetectable, dangerous and inciteful language and behavior and we have a recipe for unimaginable consequences. Jews invariably will be targeted at a higher rate than all others and recently have been seeing an uptick in hate crimes (from our base line which was already unenviable). It is not surprising that most Jews are portrayed as neurotic in all movies and tv shows…we are. And we have every right to be.

Which leads back to the clown prince of Jew Hatred.

How can a billionaire, who has literally found uber success in everything he has touched (from fashion to music production to performance art) have any reason to blame Jews for anything? Oh no, a Jew told him “NO.” Sorry, I guess you will have to go back to your miserable billionaire life and all your other successes. But nobody puts baby in a corner. Nobody can say no to Kanye. Especially one of the Jewish faith. And so it’s open season, not only on the specific person who said no, but on all Jews.

Interestingly, in his song “Who Gon Stop Me” he mentions the Holocaust (and equates the street thug experience of African Americans to the Holocaust). It’s best to avoid comparisons of the Shoah in general, but I guess poetic license in a song lyric can be somewhat justified (you be the judge). Still, what I find intriguing is that his protagonist in this song (and the very title) has the same very cavalier attitude as its author did following his latest barrage of antisemitic outbursts…he literally tweeted that he can say whatever antisemitic garbage he wants, and his most valuable partner (Adidas) can’t do anything about it (aka, who gon stop me). Talk about life imitating art.

Aside from his 30 million adoring followers (and likely more in his overall fanbase) and the comments many of them wrote in response to Ye’s recent Twitterstorm…do you know what really keeps me up at night?

HE OWNS A SCHOOL! Let that sink in.

Sure, it closed down in the wake of this fiasco (though the letter to parents insinuates that the school will be back, open and ready to taint (read: indoctrinate) innocent minds in 2023. And as of this writing, it seems it may not close at all.

A friggin’ school! And a school cloaked in secrecy…I kid you not. I couldn’t make this shit up if I tried.

I mean…as the old adage goes…give a kid a Jew to hate…he or she will hate that Jew for a day (or three). Teach a kid to hate Jews…well that hatred will last a lifetime, and likely be passed down to future generations to continue the hatred. It’s the gift that spans generations. Wait, I believe I just found the new school motto. Anyone know a copyright/trademark attorney?

So yeah. IDROS is scared.

The world is a scary place for a Jew without the Jew Hate. The greed, the guns, the pandemics, the political divides, the economic woes, the war in Ukraine, terrorism, murder hornets, the war on women, sexual abuse, global warming, natural disasters, oligarchs, tyrants, homophobia, drug cartels, etc.

But for us Jews, we get so much more for our money:

We have metal detectors and police presence at our houses of worship.

We get accosted, excluded and treated unfairly on college campuses around the world by pro-Palestinian groups and a slew of other anti-Israel affiliates…even by some professors!

We face discrimination in every walk of life.

We suffer verbal and physical abuse and far too often, murder.

We are threatened more often per capita than any other race, religion or minority, through distributed flyers, graffiti, vandalism, bomb threats and other forms of harassment.

We are denied our history, our culture and our collective truth by holocaust deniers, anti-Zionists and conspiracy theorists.

We are blamed and scapegoated for pretty much everything, by everyone.

We are accused of being rich, powerful and controlling, and also for being subhuman scum.

We face antisemitism from the right and the left. Even known antisemites use us as pawns for their own political gains.

We are accused of being white when it suits people of color in their railings against white privilege, and of being of color when it suits white supremacists and other far right groups in their insane rantings and utopian ideals.

We are not white! Fellow Jews, stop checking that box on the census and on questionnaires. We are other. We always have been other and get told as much by every other group on earth regularly. Sometimes they tell us nicely…more often though, they don’t.

I have children. Jewish children. And I love raising them Jewish and showing them our traditions and discussing our history and ancestry. Going to Israel with them recently was one of the most incredible experiences I could imagine. A dream come true.

But…I am dreading the talk. My kids are too young to really learn about the Holocaust (and the inordinate number of other sickening and genocidal acts of horror inflicted upon us throughout history). To really grasp what it means to be a Jew. Black parents often mention having “the talk” with their children…about their horrific history. About Jim Crow. About institutional racism, red lining, block busting and gerrymandering. About how to interact with police and authorities. About what to do, and not do, if/when they ever get pulled over, etc. And it’s truly heartbreaking that they must have those discussions.

We Jews have our own version of the talk. And IDROS dreads that day…the day my children lose their innocence and learn the truth about our heritage. About what that means, and has meant for their grandparents, and great grandparents. About why there are significant holes in our family tree. About the loss, and the torture, and the starvation. About the freezing cold, the never-ending shivering. About the forceful exile and imprisonments, and the squalor and disease. About the seizure of their belongings, and homes. About their abandonment. About the not knowing. About the omnipresent fear. About their night terrors, and pent-up rage. About Sophie’s Choice-like decisions they all had to make. About their salvation/liberation, only to return to homes that had been stolen from them, and neighbors who wanted them to (read: forced them to) leave. About Israel, a beacon of hope, and how it was attacked from all sides the day it declared its independence. About the two subsequent wars all of its neighbors waged unsuccessfully. About the continued terrorism by the Palestinian, Lebanese and Iranian backed militias. About the pogroms. About the purging of Jews from all countries in the Middle East. About the 1972 Olympics. About the Tree of Life and Beth Israel Colleyville Synagogues. About the Paris attacks, and those in the Jewish day school in Toulouse. About Charlottesville and the tiki torches. About Daniel Pearl. And on and on and on.

So thank you Kanye, for giving me 30 million more reasons to dread that rapidly approaching day…the day I must show my own children that I am afraid and officially welcome them to their reality…to the most hated group on our planet. You, like your idol Adolf, will not succeed. Enjoy your hateful life.

Shabbat Shalom!

Love and Light,

IDROS

#NeverForget

#GoPhils

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Pulp Fiction

There are few movies that have resonated with me the way Tarantino’s opus did. So many memorable scenes, legendary performances, witty dialogue, innovative storytelling and sequencing, and a soundtrack commensurate with the overall greatness of the plot.

Interestingly, as we find ourselves at the edge of the abyss that is the looming election, and all that it represents in the story of America, IDROS can’t help but think that we are living our own pulp fiction right now. No writer…not even Tarantino, or Orwell for that matter…could have scripted a tale that would have done justice to the past year. 2020 has been the most bizarre and heartbreaking year imaginable. I am waiting for someone like Winston Wolf to be summoned, tuxedo and all, and help us all magically clean up the bloody mess of this year before the Missus gets home.

Alas…Mr. Wolf is not emerging from an Acura NSX in front of our homes anytime soon. But one can still wish, right?

A scene that really stuck with me in the movie…and made an indelible mark on my life, to be honest, was a dark and awful and shocking and suspenseful vignette…in a movie chock full of scenes that fit that bill.

But this one scene stood alone in its graphic violence, in its vulgarity and utter boldness, and ultimately in its humanity. Those that know the movie likely know where I am going here, but in these times…these unprecedented times, that scene…that terrifying yet cathartic scene, spoke volumes about life in America…not in 1994…BUT RIGHT NOW, in 2020, with race riots scattered across our country, the most divisive political climate imaginable, and a deadly virus hanging over us like a guillotine blade.

***Spoiler Alert! (though at 26+ years, this one is on you, not me…and shame on you if you haven’t seen this film yet anyway). Butch and Marcellus were kidnapped by corrupt cops. Butch musters his strength to neutralize the “Gimp,” and heads back upstairs toward freedom and safety from the monsters below. Inches from getting away, Butch has a change of heart. What those evil assholes masquerading as law enforcement officers were doing to a man (who moments ago was Butch’s arch-enemy) downstairs was unconscionable. Butch couldn’t let it go. He grabbed a sword and headed back into the dungeon of horrors.

I will let the scene speak for itself.

When Marcellus answers Butch’s “you ok?” with the most memorable line of the scene: ”I’m pretty fuckin’ far from OK!” I believe he was speaking for all of us, who can’t believe the injustice that continues to surround large swaths of our nation…in 2020! ONE HUNDRED FIFTY-FIVE YEARS AFTER THE END OF THE CIVIL WAR. Who can’t believe that a troglodyte used the past four years to pack our Judicial system full of lifetime appointees who will roll back all progress gained by certain minorities, oppressed groups and an entire gender. Who can’t believe this same troglodyte willfully abetted an actual plague in the murder of hundreds of thousands of Americans, and put millions more directly in harm’s way. Who can’t believe the third (or more) of our national population who emboldened and defended the monster who runs our country. Who can’t believe that so many people still support this administration after witnessing the past 4 years. Who wonder what happened to kindness, civility, decorum and empathy in our country and certainly from our elected officials.

We are all pretty fuckin’ far from ok. But we don’t need to get medieval on anyone.

We all have the opportunity to be Butch. Our humanity cannot waver, even as we bear witness to unspeakable horror and evil. We all must head back down those stairs, confront the evil, and do the right thing.

If you haven’t voted already, IDROS urges you to get out there and vote on Tuesday. Vote like your life depends on it. Vote like your neighbor’s life depends on it.

Because Zed’s dead, baby. Zed’s dead. It’s time to move out of the darkness.

As always, thanks for reading.

Best regards,

IDROS

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47 Thoughts

Happy 47

  1. Thank you to all who helped make my birthday as great as it could be under these circumstances. Loved the messages, calls, texts, sexts, cards, emojis, balloons and general fanfare. Special shout out to Mrs. IDROS, who went above and beyond as usual with an incredible surprise recreation of one of my favorite restaurants, menus and birthday dinners.
  2. As usual in America, our policy du jour is about making cents, rather than making sense.
  3. #WearAFuckingMask
  4. #BlackLivesMatter
  5. Who is overseeing the testing sites…I fear those centers lack the regulatory oversight to be effective, and worse, may be spreading the virus (you know…bringing hundreds of likely ill people together to fester in a parking lot petri dish…)?
  6. America is a Cancer…as we celebrate our nation’s birthday, it occurs to me that our American Zodiac sign might be…fitting?
  7. IDROS does not agree with the removal of “all” historical monuments that celebrate racists and miscreants from a bygone era…many absolutely should be removed, and many others should be updated with plaques and inscriptions that detail A) why the monument or statue was erected, and more importantly, B) why the man/men (yes, it is almost always men, not women) are a stain on society, and, if known, whether they were more (racist, misogynistic, generally awful) than was the standard during their time (take Woodrow Wilson for example….)
  8. What kind of reading and self-guided education have you been doing vis a vis racism in America? It’s never too late.
  9. It’s a good thing America has been made great again, because we are not going to be allowed to leave our country again for a while as more and more nations close their borders to our citizens.
  10. What instrument would you rank 5th all time for rock music (after guitar, bass, keyboards and drums)? IDROS goes harmonica.
  11. If you enjoy non-fiction reading, I recommend any of the 4 books by brothers Dan and Chip Heath. Similar to Malcolm Gladwell, they write fascinating, research-based books that dissect important phenomena that affect all of humanity. A lot of what they write can be channeled into self-help and can add value to all of humanity. Dan works at Duke University, and Chip works at Stanford, in case University prestige and affiliation moves the needle.
  12. IDROS is almost as embarrassed to live in Florida as he is to live in America right now…neck and neck really.
  13. Facebook, Twitter and all other social media platforms need to be regulated more fervently in terms of “free” speech. It’s nice that large companies like Unilever, Starbucks and Verizon are now throwing their hats into the ring, pulling ads and hitting FB in its e-wallet…but this again proves that corporate conglomerates have more power than people in America and in the world…and so our politicians will continue to do their bidding, often at the expense of humanity.
  14. Watched “Joker” this past weekend. Uncanny how much Leaf looks like Phil Dunphy…perhaps scarier than the themes in Joker.
  15. I think my favorite moment from last month (#PrideMonth) came when the conservative majority court that our president and his lackeys fraudulently stacked in their favor, ruled to uphold LGBTQ rights…at least this time.
  16. A few celebs that share my birthdate (June 29): Colin Hay, Kawhi Leonard, Nicole Scherzinger, Richard Lewis, Theo Fleury, Pepper Johnson (remember that block by Byars?), Dan Dierdorf, Fred “Gopher” Grandy, Bob Evans (the producer, not “Down on the Farm”)
  17. What’s a tougher watch…the first 20 minutes of “Up” or the first 20 minutes of “Saving Private Ryan?” Any other movies with a more difficult opening to watch?
  18. It is not easy to come up with a list of 47 (he says after only 18 entries).
  19. A Monday birthday is not optimal. A Coronavirus birthday isn’t anyone’s first choice either. But both of those scenarios are outside my control (IDROS mutters to self, “not helping”).
  20. Sad to not be celebrating this lap around our sun at the South Jersey shore.
  21. 40 years ago, all 4 Philly sports teams were elite. This year, who knows…but the Phillies lead the league in positive coronavirus cases, so there’s that
  22. Remember when the Flyers were the best team in the NHL just before Covid shut the world down? Good times.
  23. Recommend Philly-boy-turned-rapper Lil Dicky’s show “Dave” if you need a reco.
  24. Who else is completely skeeved out by paper (and coin) money right now?
  25. Dave Chappelle – 8:46 is pure genius. No doubt he belongs on the Mount Rushmore of comedy.
  26. Who are the 3 others? (Eddie, George and Richard are consensus, but Mel, Carol, Larry, Lucille, Rodney, Jerry, Joan and Carl are all worthy of consideration).
  27. Neil Young’s latest new release of old material “Homegrown” is very good…great in spots. My favorite song on the album is “We Don’t Smoke It No More,” a drunken barroom blues nugget that should be categorized among NY’s greatest blues efforts.
  28. Phish, and especially Trey, have been prolific during the pandemic thus far. I will definitely miss seeing them this summer at traditional venues, but for my money, I prefer Tuesdays with Phish (for DAAM) to those with Morrie (sorry Mitch).
  29.  The selfishness of the “anti-maskers” is mindboggling, and their ridiculous stance is emboldened from the top.
  30. Speaking of ludicrosity, our citrus fruit in chief needs to READ ICCULUS (if he can read)
  31. I think that lost in the 125,000+ deaths so far from Covid (many of which I believe are the direct fault of DJT and state governors like him…yes I mean you, DeSantis) are the countless survivors of the coronavirus, who will become part of the data set that make this seem like a more docile beast than it is, but whose lives have been forever negatively impacted by the disease (breathing issues, lung scarring, organ damage, etc.). We don’t know what we don’t know, and the fallout from this shitstorm is far from realized at this point.
  32. There haven’t been any school shootings on Covid’s watch thus far…so there is at least one silver lining
  33. I have no real problem with calling Covid “The Chinese Virus” or “The Chinese Flu” per se…after all, we still call plenty of illnesses, viruses and pandemics by their place of origin, or by a country name (Spanish Flu, West Nile Virus, Ebola, etc.). I only take issue because of the buffoon who feels it necessary to make it a racist put-down by doing so.
  34. Chuck E Cheese’s declaring bankruptcy, obvious as it may be in these crazy times, is devastating to my son.
  35. The past 3 ½ months have been surreal.
  36. Family Feud style, top 6 answers on the board: Can I get a(n) ______________?
  37. Are the mobs coming for the White House? Will it inevitably become the Multicolored House?
  38. There isn’t a litany of great famous athletes who have worn number 47 in history: Jack Morris, Tom Glavine, Mel Blount, Jerry Lucas, John Lynch are the best of the bunch.
  39. Does 7 qualify as late? Like, am I now in my late 40s?
  40. As a time of day, 7 never qualifies as late (I realize you might be running late for something at 7am or 7pm, or you may have overslept till 7, etc., but that doesn’t make 7 late…it makes YOU late).
  41. How lazy was Susan? Would one instantly know upon meeting her?
  42. 47 is a prime number
  43. RIP Carl Reiner, a true American treasure. My heart aches for Mel, Rob, the entire Reiner family and all Americans who knew and loved one of the greatest comedic minds of all time. In a time where we all can use as much laughter as possible, his void will be hard to fill.
  44. A few more celebs that share the IDROS birthday: Harmon Killebrew, Maria Conchita Alonso (“The Running Woman”), Bret (not Jemaine) Mckenzie, Charlamagne Tha God, and, of course, Gary Busey
  45. America is, and always has been, a work in progress. Our forefathers, some of whom were asshole slave-owners, racists, and misogynists, were remarkable in many ways, especially in their time. And our constitution was drafted to allow America the flexibility to evolve, and to get better over time. Never forget, on this Independence Day, that those who broke from their colonial rulers, did so at great personal and collective risk and against great odds, to create a new land of opportunity for “all” (read: originally, all white men…but slowly, more and more inclusive).
  46. It is incumbent upon all of us to make our country better. Somewhere along the way it seems to have been lost on many that we have a responsibility to continue what our Founding Fathers started. We are truly only as strong and great as our weakest link(s). All of us must strive to do better, to be kinder, to be more empathetic, to educate ourselves and our children, to call out injustice when we see it, to refuse to remain silent in the face of oppression, and to make our nation better for future generations.
  47. Thanks for reading, and Happy 4th. Stay safe everyone!

 

All the best,

IDROS

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The Ultimate List

Funny_Fantasy-football-namesPumpkin spice surrounds us once again, and it is as inescapable as a crowded checkout line at Target. The kiddos are starting (or in the case of Florida, where IDROS lives, have already started) school. Halloween decorations, costumes and candies have flooded retail hubs across America. And so, by the transitive property, we can safely assume that FOOTBALL SEASON is upon us. And with it, Fantasy drafts have hijacked the productivity of at least 60% of society and have added stress and resentment to marriages across the land.  Polls and power rankings are honed and proliferated by pedigreed dart-throwers at major sports media outlets all over the nation.

Why? Because everyone loves lists. All things in life are better when boiled down to an ordered, unordered, random or deliberate list…especially when it’s ranked. Some of these rankings are serious, and help inform people’s choices for colleges, grad schools, private schools, mutual funds, new cars, doctors, lawyers, and a host of other products and professionals we are free to choose. Some are less serious, but nonetheless drive the music we listen to, the movies we see, the Fantasy players we draft, the “top” answers on a certain Game Show and more importantly, the relevancy regarding certain arcana such as the best songs from certain decades, the best movie roles for certain actors, the best quarterbacks of all time, etc.

IDROS enjoys a good list as much as anyone, and so what better way to “kick off” American football season (see what I did there?) than to proffer a very special list…the ultimate list.

Behold, the IDROS ULTIMATE LIST OF LISTS (top 25 answers on the board…revealed in descending order for the reader’s pleasure). As always, if you have any suggestions or additions, feel free to contribute in the comments:

25) To Do

24) Do Not Call

23) Endangered Species

22) Reading

21) Play

20) Wait

19) Christmas (Holiday)

18) Check

17) No Fly

16) Hit

15) Wish

14) Guest

13) Mailing/Contact

12) Most Wanted

11) Punch

10) A

9) Hurricane (Apocalypse) Prep

8) Shopping/Grocery

7) B

6) Sh*t

5) Wine

4) Bucket

3) Set

2) My (…of the best things in life…yes, the one your kiss is on)

1) Franz

Others receiving votes: Top 10, Phone/Contact, C, Short, Packing, Watch, Price, Honey-Do, Luke, Ingredients, UVA, Inventory, Results, Santa’s, D, Answer, Florida State, Drink, Song, Signature, Donor, Passenger, Thank You, Call/Emergency Call

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It Was An Abortion Michael…An Abortion!

Well, well, well, Alabama. I would love to write that you have sunk to a new low, but that is virtually impossible for a state of your “caliber”…and yes, those are air-quotes, and meant to denote the irony of typing such a word and associating it with what can only be described as the inner bowels of hell…a place with fewer redeeming qualities than a disease infested mosquito.

Before I get into the real story here, I feel it necessary to give some points of reference to my seemingly heavy-handed opening salvo…so here are some incredible facts of modern-day Alabama (we all know the glorious history Alabama showcased prior to the Civil War).

  • Alabama ranks dead last in our nation in Education…and has been at or near the bottom every year of your humble author’s life.
  • Average Income of Alabama’s citizens ranks in the bottom five (5) for both median household and per capita income.  IDROS is not trying to belittle hard working citizens, and would never try to mock anyone for their income level. The point here is twofold – First, Alabama contributes poorly to our national income tax coffers as a result of its citizen’s income level; and Second, the state is not carrying its weight in any shape or form and should not have the ability to sway large national issues that may affect US citizens outside of Alabama, ever, as a result.
  • Alabama ranks in the top 10 (#7 actually) in violent crimes per capita…sure, numbers 1 and 2 above contribute big time to this statistic, but there are a number of states that fall in the bottom of one or both of the lists above and has a violent crime rate far below that of Alabama.
  • Alabama ranks at the very bottom (in 2018 it was 49th of 50…in many recent years dead last) for its awful infant mortality rate…so unless the state fixes things and fast, big AL is actually responsible for more dead babies than Abortion…so much for Pro Life
  • Can you guess which state ranks 49th out of 50 in an overall ranking of states, according to statistics including the above, as well as health care, infrastructure, opportunity, general economy, etc.?

Ladies and gentlemen, I give you ALABAMA.

The point here is that Alabama is pretty much the worst place in our country…so doing something like introducing this ridiculous new abortion law is pretty much in line with expectations from a place that ranks 49 out of 50.

Alabama 25Ahhhh…the homogenous group of 25 white MEN, people who are unable to get pregnant themselves…mind you…who took it upon themselves to place the rights of rapists and incestuous sexual predators above those of Alabaman women. Women who are, aside from actually being able to get pregnant, grow another human life (or two or eight) inside of them, get overwhelmed with hormones, have their insides and outsides stretched, crushed and contorted to unfathomable limits, lose countless hours of sleep, and endure pain unknown to all males, actual and EQUAL constituents of these 25 jerk-offs.

The plot gets a little interesting given that Alabama has a female Governor (Kay Ivey). Yep…the populace of that state was evidently enlightened enough to trust their governance to a woman (IDROS believes it must have been a balloting error), but still doesn’t believe said woman should be able to govern her own body. We shall see if Governor Ivey even cares, or if she too is so corrupted by the hypocrisy of the religious right that her own body is no longer part of her jurisdiction.

IDROS would like to make one point crystal clear. No sane person, including IDROS (if you are flexible in your definition of sanity), is PRO abortion. Your author knows HIS lane…and emphasizes the male possessive in absolute solidarity with the fact that this is not an issue that should be legislated, debated, or even posited by any males of our species. Sure, we can opine, when asked, or in the event it is our spermatozoa that fertilized the specific ovum that led to a very difficult decision…maybe even weigh in…in a supportive and chivalrous manner.

But the same people who claim to be PRO “Life” have seen to it that our nation has more guns than people and easier access to them than to clean drinking water. The same mother f-ers that clamor for smaller government want to shrink it so that it fits inside a woman’s vagina…so they can control it from the inside. Talk about hypocrisy. And the vast majority of the government a-holes (and their voter base) who support the legislating of women’s bodies are men (all 25 were in this case).

This “are you f-ing kidding me” watershed moment is even more grotesque and complex than it might appear, however. Why? Because the ridiculous men who brought forth what amounts to the most misogynistic, criminally insensitive and malicious anti-abortion legislation in our nation did so with an ulterior motive in mind. You see, while they do believe the ideas in said legislation, even they, Alabaman politicians, raised and educated in the great school system of Alabama, know enough from their 4 and 5 years in law school and several attempts at passing the bar exam, that the legislation is unconstitutional.

And so these wily little weasels are setting a no-win trap. IDROS feels like Admiral Akbar realizing the deflector shield is still up. The ACLU will step in, trying to protect the females of our species in Alabama, and appeal this legislation all the way up to the  SCOTUS…where the new and inferior, rage-inducing conservative majority sits waiting to pounce…and to upend Roe v. Wade.

IDROS says f ‘em. ACLU, hear me now and listen to me later (yes, in Hans and Franz accent)…do not interfere! Let Alabama remain the stain on our nation it desperately seeks to be. We all see where this is going…back alley abortions; bringing back the coat hangers. I can see the blood running down the legs of those poor women now into puddles in some awful Alabaman alley. The Crimson Tide will take on a whole new meaning. And all the blood will be on the hands of a bunch of men, who thought they knew what was best…not just for the women of Alabama…but for the rest of our country as well. (IDROS apologizes for the nauseating, though alliterative, imagery)

IDROS wishes we rational Americans could have a late term abortion and force Alabama out of the US. They are a drag on our resources and are now trying to influence national policy. They must be stopped.

Kay Ivey…you are the first potential blockade. IDROS hopes you choose wisely…but fears the worst.

In the event Kay drops the ball, or the Alabama House of White Male Dicks vetoes her refusal…

Then ACLU, IDROS knows you mean well. But leave this alone. Don’t let Alabama potentially ruin the rest of our country with its ignorance and hypocrisy.

As a closely related aside, IDROS loves the Godfather Part Deux. An amazing scene (among many) is when Kay explains to Michael that she didn’t lose the baby. Watch here. Reflect. Such a great scene! And to think Alabama even wants to prevent women from snuffing out future Mafia Dons with this asinine legislation. Furthermore, IDROS likes that Alabama’s Governor is also named Kay…maybe she will use this opportunity to grandstand, and theatrically shout “This Legislation Was an Abortion…It was an Abortion!”

Anyway…just my 2 ₡

Thanks, as always for reading.

All the best,

IDROS (oh, and call me Deacon Blues)

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The Circle of Life (A Non-Disney Rendition)

Lion KingThe past month has been mind-bogglingly painful for IDROS, as I am sure it has been for many of you. It’s basically been like Billy Joel’s We Didn’t Start the Fire Part Deux…in thirty friggin’ days. Another horrific mass shooting, nuclear war somehow becoming more likely to invoke Nena-like apocalyptic nightmare scenarios for the first time in 25 years, natural disasters out the yin yang (is that still a saying?), celebrity deaths that leave us shaking our heads (IDROS was particularly saddened by Walter Becker’s passing), the only Vice President IDROS likes these days got diagnosed with Breast Cancer, various examples of racism and homophobia, terrorist attacks, This is Us got the axe (kidding), another oil spill, the best quarterback in the NFL broke his collarbone (and ruined IDROS’ chances of winning his fantasy football championship this season), Kaepernick still doesn’t have a job and the movement he has spawned has caused a caustic environment throughout the nation, our president’s lack of empathy (demonstrated in numerous ways this past month) continues to embarrass and frustrate many Americans…and on, and on, and on.

But the story currently gripping the nation, sending shockwaves through the entertainment industry and beyond, finally motivated IDROS to make time in his busy schedule to hunt and peck for a stretch in an effort to make sense of all of the hopeless and catastrophic BS that haunts us as we enter the fourth quarter of 2017.

You know…the story that ensures you will never look at a potted plant the same way….ever again.

IDROS is not surprised by the news, to say the least. And obviously that is part of the problem…pretty much nobody was. Screenwriter Scott Rosenberg penned a well-written post about his Golden Goose named Harvey and the role the silence of those around him played in the sick and twisted mogul’s twenty-plus-year (likely much more) run harassing hundreds of unsuspecting women (click here if you haven’t read it yet).

While entertaining, IDROS did not find the piece to be enlightening…in fact it served only to reinforce the feeling IDROS already had upon first hearing the news…of course everybody f-ing knew. And to think: Disney owned Miramax during the time Harvey really rose to prominence. Wholesome Disney…meet your sinister underbelly. We shall see if the brass over at Mickey Mouse’s Clubhouse knew about the rat they had lurking inside their Magic Kingdom.

Disney inadvertently helped create Harvey Weinstein when they purchased Miramax in 1993. Disney also created The Lion King, a mostly accurate portrait of earth’s animal kingdom and the symbiosis necessary to perpetuate the health of life on our planet. IDROS wants to discuss these themes as they relate to pretty much all of the awful news gripping our planet. Grab a drink and a snack and make yourself comfortable…this could take a while.

Bullying is a topic of concern among most parents in America, and likely the world. It has emerged and jumped to the forefront of national dialogue in recent years in the wake of various school shootings and an increase in suicides among America’s youth. But bullying is not new. We know this because Biff Tannen, pretty much the poster-boy for bullying, was brought to the big screen in 1985, more than three decades ago. But bullying has been around since the dawn of man…in fact since the dawn of LIFE.

Animals of all species have bullies, and always have. Darwin explained the phenomenon using his theory of “Survival of the Fittest.” Alpha males of various species assert themselves in a myriad of behaviors in order to gain access to the best feeding territories, clean water, safe terrain free from enemies, or at least more easy to defend, and most importantly, to suitable mates. Females, for their part, are generally open to this display of male dominance, and often to the point of allowing (or at least accepting that) their mate is also mating with several other females, because mating with an alpha male improves the odds that her offspring will be stronger, faster and more able to survive. Bullying is a trait necessary for survival in the Animal Kingdom.

Humans have evolved. But our base instincts are still derived from our pre-civilized time as animals.

Bullying is a major problem. In fact, IDROS will go so far as to say, as far as the future of society is concerned…bullying is THE problem. It is the singular greatest problem man has…and always has been.

All conflict is a direct result of bullying. All fights are a direct result of bullying. And all wars are a direct result of bullying. Think about that. Let it sink in. Any time a person or group of people attempt to assert themselves over another, for ANY reason…they are acting the bully.

Awful criminal activity is pretty much universally some form of bullying. From blackmail to rape, human trafficking to armed robbery, pedophilia to organized crime.

Furthermore, there are more subtle forms of bullying. Bribery (which unbelievably is legal in the form of LOBBYING), harassment (sexual and otherwise) and racism. While all of these types of bullying can be overt, often they manifest in less public ways…especially in the anonymous age of the internet. But acts such as racism are learned…and so just being racist assholes in the confines of your home, around your children, without directly committing any racist acts to anyone else, can have deleterious effects.

Not only are humans wired genetically to be bullies, but we pass on bullying behavior socially and educationally as well. Children and adults alike witness aggressive or ignorant behavior at home, at school, with their friends and even in the workplace, and become infinitely more likely to act similarly.

Maybe more impactful than all of that is the cyclical nature of experience. People who are bullied, especially as children, are more likely to become bullies themselves. Children whom are molested and/or abused are exponentially more likely to become predators themselves.

Bullying is a true circle of life. Scar was a bully in The Lion King. And when he rose to (read: murderously seized) power, the kingdom became a desert wasteland. Sound eerily like any scenario that seems more and more imminent every day in the actual world?

Power is the drug that fuels pretty much all bullies. And all forms of bullying are an assertion of power over a bully’s prey.

Americans elected a friggin’ bully to be the leader of the free world. If that isn’t a complete nod to the fact that bullying is in our DNA, and that Americans have all been bullied themselves and so are now subconsciously (and unfortunately, in many cases, consciously) becoming bullies themselves by placing the king of all bullies on the proverbial Iron Throne! And our Confederacy of Dunces isn’t the only nation to have a bully in its highest office. Russia, North Korea, Syria, China, and the Philippines among others fit the bill. But our bully-in-chief has displayed a rare aptitude for bullying, demonstrating his prowess in a multitude of ways over the years: Racism, verbal abuse, threats, and of course, sexual harassment/abuse.

Sexual harassment and abuse is rampant around the globe. Vile rapes and sexual mutilations occur with ridiculous frequency…and those are the ones we find out about through the media. 50% of our society is disrespected on a daily basis…and always has been. Even some of the male population gets sexually harassed and abused. And women can be perpetrators as well.

The god-damned Fearless Girl statue on Wall Street…wait for it…Fearless Girl…was commissioned by a hedge fund that was recently outed for unequal pay practices. Hypocrisy emanates from every scandal that is uncovered. We are all guilty.

The Harvey Weinstein scandal is important. It helps pinpoint the focal point of all that is wrong with modern society. If we can identify a problem, we can then work to address and overcome it. But it won’t be easy.

When IDROS was in middle school, a bully was tormenting some peers in the hallway. The bully was pretty much twice the size of the then awkward 11-year-old IDROS. Rather than confront the bully and tell him to stop, IDROS chose to laugh at his classmates. IDROS didn’t even go and report the bullying after the fact, in private…not even anonymously. The guilt still lingers. It is compounded by the fact that IDROS felt good whilst chuckling at his peer’s misfortune. Good because IDROS wasn’t in the crosshairs himself, but also good because IDROS definitely felt better about himself at that moment because for whatever reason, this gargantuan troglodyte decided that IDROS did not deserve his wrath…which in your author’s sophomoric mind…must have meant that the asshole liked IDROS more than the unfortunate souls he was targeting. It meant IDROS was higher on the social hierarchy, in the view of our school bully, than those other “losers”…some of whom, incidentally, were my friends. The bully caught two of my scrawny classmates by their shirt collars as they tried to run away from him. I could hear one of their shirt necks rip and stretch. “You think they’re fags?” the bully asked me. “How would I know?” I answered. He then forced the two boys together face to face, draped their arms over each other’s shoulders and forced them into a hug. “What about now?” he asked, laughing. I laughed nervously. But I laughed. I said nothing. I did nothing.

I’m not saying it was putting a bag of dog-shit on my best friend’s porch, lighting it on fire and ringing the bell type behavior. But the bully wasn’t one of the cool kids, either. I think about that day sometimes. I try to make sense of it. I see the fear in the eyes of my two friends. I hear my nervous laughter. And I think about what I should have done…could have done differently. I also think about scenarios like in the aforementioned Can’t Buy Me Love, about whether if the bully was not merely a giant jock strap, but someone who was cool and revered at my school…what would I have done? What would I have been willing to do to impress them? IDROS was bullied and teased at a young age. And so this instance of not being bullied when I definitely could have been was a game changer. Rather than risk becoming a rat, a tattle tale, and thus give new reasons to Mr. Asshole to turn his charms on me, I did nothing. I said nothing. I laughed. And I even enjoyed it on some incomprehensible level.

And so I come back to Scott Rosenberg’s post. A rising tide lifts all boats…even if said tide happens to be a tsunami. At a certain point though, those boats gets smashed on the rocky shore just like everything else. He knows it. You can feel his shame, his guilt emanate from the screen you are reading. He is trying to get that monkey off his back, as he clamors for others who rose on Weinstein’s coattails to do the same. It’s got to be cathartic. But is it enough?

Look, if anyone has ever watched Beautiful Girls, a vastly underrated film that put Rosenberg on the map back in 1996, there is a scene toward the end where Mo (who was likely a bully in high school), played by Noah Emmerich, is pounding on the rich cuckold Steve’s door. When the door opens, Steve’s friends are pinned into a snowbank, and the target of Mo’s fury begins to cower and beg for mercy, Mo sees his genuine fear and also, through the open door, his young daughter. He sees the lives that hang in the balance from his and his friend’s (Matt Dillon’s) actions. He feels guilt and shame…and he feels EMPATHY, and the audience experiences it with him. Both the writing and acting are stellar.

And if Rosenberg understood this well enough to create that moment, I am going to accept his apology. Heaven knows IDROS hasn’t been perfect. We are all human. We are all bullies. We are all bullied.

But things do need to change.

Hollywood has championed a recent trend to feature television shows and movies that center around flawed anti-heroes…most of whom are BULLIES (think Tony Soprano, Frank Underwood, etc.) Even women are portrayed as bullies…Cersei Lannister, Selina Meyer, Norma Bates, etc. We, as the audience, are demanding this, and consuming it at alarming speeds thanks to on demand streaming services. Americans are living vicariously through our favorite bullies, allowing them to satisfy our subconscious desire…our INNATE desire…to be the bully ourselves.

Who among us, when Dr. Melfi was raped, didn’t secretly or openly yearn for Tony to find that piece of shit rapist and do unspeakable things to him. The writers were actually smart in not satisfying our craving, because truth be told, their closure would never have measured up to the horrors each of us likely unleashed in our own imaginations. We want this. We enjoy this.

So much so that we (and by we, I in no way want any credit for it) as Americans actually elected a head of state that reflects this inner bully.

But still, things need to change.

And it will be an uphill battle to make positive change regarding any aspect of bullying if the leader of the free world is as big a bully as the world has ever seen. I don’t care what side of the political fence you tend to occupy…the man who our countrymen elected to sit in the Oval Office is so lacking in empathy it is terrifying. So perhaps we should start there. I mean if Big Harv was fired from his own company, unceremoniously removed from its board and banished from all things Hollywood, I believe Agent Orange has earned a similar fate. Who’s starting the “Your Fired” campaign on Change.org?

Second, we need to adopt the same credo for all bullying that we do for terrorism (which is, itself, a form of bullying). See Something, Say Something. Especially for those of us who witness acts of aggression but aren’t victims ourselves. Victims often remain silent because they were traumatized, and don’t want to be traumatized a second time by reporting their awful experiences…especially given there is a chance their account will fall on deaf, or unsupportive ears. It is up to the rest of us to create an environment where bullies cannot operate, where the silence of victims and witnesses alike actually aids and abets the perpetrators.

And finally, we need to LISTEN. We need to value and respect the women (and men and children) who are victimized. We need to really hear them, and comfort them and offer to help. Sometimes we need to make hard choices, and help even when we are told not to do or say anything. IDROS is not a trained therapist, so would recommend consulting one before going rogue. But we all need to listen.

We’re all in this together…and overcoming our genetic predisposition for bullying, our psychological and physical damage from bullying as well as our awful behaviors that were taught to us by our parents, friends, peers, colleagues, siblings, teachers and other “role models” from the time we were born will be hard.

But in the incredible words of JFK, “We choose to go to the moon in this decade and do the other things, not because they are easy, but because they are hard.”

Slow clap finale as the screen fades to black.

#MeToo

IDROS

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